I fell more alone cause David is not any more here.
Reading his works I found them very creative, original, ironic, authentic, magnetic, such gorgeous; but one of the most rare and exceptional experience I made every time I read his books, besides being illuminated by his geniality, it's like staying together whit a dear and very special friend, and, closing his book, is like leaving the genial friend when I would like to continue to heard his story, his thoughts, his creative way to tell everything.
His humanity was deep and spontaneous, he could look at the characters and at the people that describes in a very profound way and, at the same time, in a delicate one. All whit a great intelligence and irony.
David Foster Wallace is brilliant. I have to keep a dictionary at my side when reading his essays. So many words that never get out and get exercised...
In reading 'A Supposedly Funny Thing...." I think I have convinced myself that it was the math genie that caused his desperation.
Having suffered from bi-polar disorder and major depression, I can surely understand the overwhelming and compelling desire to stop the turmoil and pain inside. My little inner voice used to attempt to convince me of this constantly when it felt I was sliding down into the cavernous darkness with my nails firmly planted in the dirt and losing my grip. My brain would send me creative solutions at ending my life. It was like a compulsion I could not control. It was the desire for relief from the torture.
I read that his father said that he had been medicated for many years and was able to cope until about 2 years ago and he had struggled since. It must have been physically, mentally and spritually exhausing. Being a "genius" is a heavy mantle to bear. I pray he has found rest and peace in the ether. He will remain with us through his amazing words....
No disrespect is intended by the title of this reminiscence. Some disgust, yeah. But that's momentarily. David Foster Wallace, like most holy fools, decided that it was necessary to leave no stone unturned to Figure Out What it Was All About. Thus his tendency to be verbose and hyperbolic. Like Jack Kerouac, one writer to whom he is not usually compared. But he, like Kerouac, was right; when you're trying to figure out what the immense imponderable Thing was that just lumbered by, crushing just about everything in its path, do you scrimp on time to gather clues? Not Wallace. As Coltrane once told Miles Davis one night after 'Trane's solo went on about 40 bars further than Davis would have preferred in some jazz club back in the late 1950s, "It took that long to get it all in." Regrettably, sometimes one finds out that what just passed is something one wasn't hoping to see. Other times, it's just Life writ large. Either way, it's better to be informed, in case whatever it was decides to come back.
Now for the 'screw' part. It's about taking one's life. The late Japanese author Yukio Mishima once commented that if one is to do so, best not to leave a note: 'A silent death is an endless word." I mentioned this to my Dad once, and he asked, "Huh. Wonder what word?" I suggested, ''Screw you'?" "Nah," he replied. "That's two words."
Where Wallace is concerned, remember the words that do have endings. The author is what's left after the writing is done. The author, I believe, would prefer you remember the words. RIP DFW.
The word “genius” has been so overused in the last 30- or so years, applied as it is to everything from this month’s most popular rap singer to political campaign strategists, that it is now nearly devoid of meaning; yet, I can’t think of a word that describes David Foster Wallace more accurately. Apart from any aesthetic judgment about his creativity and style, it was clear to anyone that he was just a flat-out genius by any objective assessment. His education was in Fine Arts, but his writing reflects knowledge and understanding and perhaps even commandof a multitude of disciplines, from mathematics to medicine, to a degree that can only be achieved by someone with a truly rare intellectual gift.
And what he did with words, and imagination, was simply startling. My jaw literally dropped the first time I read him, and it has never stopped dropping each time I picked up something of his to read.
It is sad that he was in pain, and it is sad that we shall not have more of him. We should be thankful for what we do have and for what will be a vital inspiration to other authors.
My sympathies go out to his family and friends.
I found out about this while watching This Week with George Stephanopoulos on Sunday. The news shook me to my core. DFW was a true literary genius. I spent months of my life immersed in Infinite Jest, finishing the book. It was a sprawling, insanely challenging, hysterically funny, obscenely violent, frequently exasperating, but ultimately profound work. IJ is a part of my life. I subsequently read his short stories. What a gift he was to our society. David Foster Wallace raised the bar for intellectual thinking. This is a huge loss. I'd always hoped that he had another great novel in him. It is so sad that many of the most brilliant literary minds find suicide the only answer. One can only wonder why?
My deepest condolences to his wife, family, and friends. DFW, you were too beautiful for this world. Thank you for your words. Rest in peace.
Dave was my buddy - my friend and such a wonderful person. He was so kind that he even let me sew up the holes in his jeans! And when he knew he was leaving Bloomington, he asked me to help him put together a party for his friends! I could have sat for hours listening to him talk - he was witty, soft, gentle, wise and brilliant! I shall never forget him. Thanks, Dave, for sharing yourself with all of us. My sincerest heartfelt sorrows to his wife, parents, and sister.
I discovered David Foster Wallace when I was suffering through my own deep depression. "A Supposedly Fun Thing . . . " was the first book I'd read in months that made me laugh out loud. I still haven't made my way through "Infinite Jest," but I've read his essays and articles again and again, to see how he does it, to laugh, to nod my head in agreement, and to be for a few hours with a person who lives in MY world, funny and absurd and tragic and ironic as it is. He made me feel less alone.
You will think I'm lying, but unfortunately I am not. But I'll get to that in a minute. First, let me say that I read DFW in my personal essay class two years ago and was inspired. It was obvious to me that the essay was my genre, and I have pursued it ever since.
Now for the lying part. Today I learned that my mother has a grade 4 glioblastoma brain tumor. After arriving home from the appointment with her doctor I got a call from our family doctor who had results from some blood work done on my three-year-old son. The results say that my beautiful and perfect boy has Type 1 diabetes. After an extended visit to Chuck E Cheese tonight for some much needed levity I checked the web for the latest news and found THIS. I need a drink. Or five.
I was fortunate to have attended one of David Foster Wallace's readings and was touched by his humility and his humanity. My deepest sympathy to his family and friends.
As a Friend
Eleonora Jan 13, 2009
Reading his works I found them very creative, original, ironic, authentic, magnetic, such gorgeous; but one of the most rare and exceptional experience I made every time I read his books, besides being illuminated by his geniality, it's like staying together whit a dear and very special friend, and, closing his book, is like leaving the genial friend when I would like to continue to heard his story, his thoughts, his creative way to tell everything.
His humanity was deep and spontaneous, he could look at the characters and at the people that describes in a very profound way and, at the same time, in a delicate one. All whit a great intelligence and irony.
Thank you David!
I'll miss you.
Eleonora
Tragic
Julie M Oct 10, 2008
I have suffered depression many years with mental and physical anguish daily and it wasn't until the love of Jesus saved me and set me free!
I pray his loved ones will seek Him and ask for comfort and peace!
Jwls
Infinite Sadness
watergirl Oct 04, 2008
In reading 'A Supposedly Funny Thing...." I think I have convinced myself that it was the math genie that caused his desperation.
Having suffered from bi-polar disorder and major depression, I can surely understand the overwhelming and compelling desire to stop the turmoil and pain inside. My little inner voice used to attempt to convince me of this constantly when it felt I was sliding down into the cavernous darkness with my nails firmly planted in the dirt and losing my grip. My brain would send me creative solutions at ending my life. It was like a compulsion I could not control. It was the desire for relief from the torture.
I read that his father said that he had been medicated for many years and was able to cope until about 2 years ago and he had struggled since. It must have been physically, mentally and spritually exhausing. Being a "genius" is a heavy mantle to bear. I pray he has found rest and peace in the ether. He will remain with us through his amazing words....
Sail on, David Foster Wallace
Screw
K.G. Griffiths Oct 03, 2008
Now for the 'screw' part. It's about taking one's life. The late Japanese author Yukio Mishima once commented that if one is to do so, best not to leave a note: 'A silent death is an endless word." I mentioned this to my Dad once, and he asked, "Huh. Wonder what word?" I suggested, ''Screw you'?" "Nah," he replied. "That's two words."
Where Wallace is concerned, remember the words that do have endings. The author is what's left after the writing is done. The author, I believe, would prefer you remember the words. RIP DFW.
Using a (now) trite word...
Mike Moore Sep 18, 2008
And what he did with words, and imagination, was simply startling. My jaw literally dropped the first time I read him, and it has never stopped dropping each time I picked up something of his to read.
It is sad that he was in pain, and it is sad that we shall not have more of him. We should be thankful for what we do have and for what will be a vital inspiration to other authors.
My sympathies go out to his family and friends.
Mike
Bismarck, North Dakota
Infinite Wallace
ubik Sep 17, 2008
from italy
gianpiero Sep 16, 2008
we miss u
.... And The Tide Was Way Out
Cindy Lyn Sep 16, 2008
I found out about this while watching This Week with George Stephanopoulos on Sunday. The news shook me to my core. DFW was a true literary genius. I spent months of my life immersed in Infinite Jest, finishing the book. It was a sprawling, insanely challenging, hysterically funny, obscenely violent, frequently exasperating, but ultimately profound work. IJ is a part of my life. I subsequently read his short stories. What a gift he was to our society. David Foster Wallace raised the bar for intellectual thinking. This is a huge loss. I'd always hoped that he had another great novel in him. It is so sad that many of the most brilliant literary minds find suicide the only answer. One can only wonder why?
My deepest condolences to his wife, family, and friends. DFW, you were too beautiful for this world. Thank you for your words. Rest in peace.
Such a Tragic Loss
Marsha P. Sep 16, 2008
He was my friend, though he didn't know it
Amy Sep 16, 2008
Three time's the charm
Laurie Sep 15, 2008
Now for the lying part. Today I learned that my mother has a grade 4 glioblastoma brain tumor. After arriving home from the appointment with her doctor I got a call from our family doctor who had results from some blood work done on my three-year-old son. The results say that my beautiful and perfect boy has Type 1 diabetes. After an extended visit to Chuck E Cheese tonight for some much needed levity I checked the web for the latest news and found THIS. I need a drink. Or five.
RIP DFW You will be missed.
A Humble Man
DFW-January 2006 Sep 15, 2008
Sharon