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John O'Keefe

  • 42 years old
  • Male
  • Born Jan 11, 1966
  • Died Jan 12, 2008
  • Toronto, Ontario, Canada
John was a beloved friend and husband. We will not forget his senseless death
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John O'Keefe, a 42-year-old father, was walking home along Yonge Street after a night at his favourite bar when he was shot and killed by a stray bullet early Saturday.

Police have charged two men with first-degree murder and attempted murder in connection with the city's second homicide of the year.

Homicide investigators say two men were ejected by bar staff after 1 a.m. after a fight inside the Brass Rail, a strip club on Yonge Street. Both started walking away, but soon turned around.

One of the men fired at the front of the strip club where a number of people stood, police said. Mr. O'Keefe was walking by and was shot in the head.

"He was just passing by in the area on the sidewalk," Detective Graham Gibson said yesterday. "It's always disconcerting when an innocent person gets struck down."

The suspects fled on foot but were arrested later in the day. The handgun used in the shooting was legally registered to one of the accused, Det. Gibson said. Neither of the accused is known to police.

Mr. O'Keefe's loved ones believe he was headed to the subway from The Duke of Gloucester when he died. He had been going to that pub with friends since his student days at the University of Toronto, where he received a degree in biology.

"It's a walk we all do and I think that's why we're so shocked that something like this could take a good friend of ours away -- something he had nothing to do with whatsoever," said Kim Ingrao-Banahan, a close friend of Mr. O'Keefe's.

She met him six years ago at a birthday party at the Artful Dodger pub, just around the corner from The Duke; she sized up the 6-foot-2 man with the out-going, big personality and thought he was the perfect match for her sister-in-law, Susan Banahan (seen above with Mr. O'Keefe).

"He was very fun, laid back. He was very understanding," Ms. Banahan said last night.

"I loved him so dearly.... He was my man."

Mr. O'Keefe grew up in Scarborough. His parents were school teachers for the Toronto District School Board. He managed a health foods store in the Exchange Tower and spent his weekends with his friends, his family and his nine-year-old son, Iain.

His friends say he loved Toronto and took Iain on adventures in the city, such as explorations of the Don Valley.

"John was the kind of person who would go on walking tours of Toronto because he was fascinated by the history of the city. You could ask him anything about the city and he would be able to tell you," Ms. Ingrao-Banahan said.

"He was a good person and he didn't deserve that. The whole city should be in shock because there were 10 or 15 people on the street. It could have been anyone of those people, it could have been you, it could have been me."

Edward Paredes, 22, of Toronto and Awet Zekarias, 23, appeared briefly in court at Old City Hall yesterday and were remanded.

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I will miss you Johnny O.

Bob Mawhinney Nov 18, 2008

I new John in the early 90's where we spent many an evening drinking bad coffee trying to raise money for worthy causes. John was a wonderful man who lit up a room and knew how to enjoy a game of darts and a beer or two after. The world was a better place for having John.

Bob Mawhinney

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Josie B. Apr 12, 2008

John used to work with us at Loblaws Queens Quay as a Natural Value manager. We had some good laughs, such a caring and nice guy. We are all in shock about his death. We love you and miss you John.

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David Flood Apr 12, 2008

At Neil, John gave me guidance and advice in art even though i was a worm.We would find ourselves hanging in Ruddy's art room afterhours and just jam away.
The last time time we met was at Sneeke Dee's (by chance) and he was elated i persued art for a living. THANK YOU JOHN.

Ed Ruddy (Apr 15, 2009)

I was John's art teacher at Neil. l remember what a gifted artist he was. He was very funny and exceptionally bright. He once said that he could not call me "sir" as the other students did but " sire , master or your lordship". Like David Flood said, he used to come to the art room after school and we would talk with the other boys . He would paint until the last minute of class and use his tie to clean his wet desk as he was running to his next period. God bless you John! Ed Ruddy Ed Ruddy

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Chris Willenberg Mar 13, 2008

Our paths first crossed a long time ago when we both took swimming lessons at Cedarbrae Collegiate. Although only about 12 or 13 at the time, even then he stood out as one of the most personable, warm and caring people I knew. Our paths crossed again later in high-school at Neil McNeil but we never saw each other again after I graduated a couple of years ahead of him. I can tell from the recent pictures of him that he was still full of warmth and compassion. Where ever he is, no doubt he looks down on all whose lives he touched with the same care and compassion he had when he walked among us.

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