Today would have been mum and dads 50th wedding anniversary...sad they missed it but glad they had the long happy marriage they shared for 48 years...also thinking of mum who delivered Robert 14 years ago today too. If it wasnt for her quick thinking and calmness Robert would not be celebrating with us today
Thanks Mum love you xxxxxxxx
Pops and few cronies from work were going fishing, With a space left he asked if i'd like to go. Off we went past Pitlochry up a side street into the middle of nowhere, here we are said Pops, wheres the loch i thought as all around were hills.
Here said Pops get this on your back and proceeded to laden my 15yr old frame with what must have been the heaviest rucksack we had with us,Follow me , 2miles of hill walking later , we're here he said , Out of breath i sat down, no time for that he said lets get fishin while its still light ,
35 fish between us over night , we had a laugh, hiding from the gillie . early morning we headed home, me barred from going again.
thanx for that memory Dad , i will cherish it all my days .
I always seem to be away from home when the days that i remember Granda most come around. Stuck in Elgin when he died, in Aberdeen or New York on this day or on his birthday....today im sat in the house where he died, seeing how upset gran is an how much she loved him and i dont remember feeling this pain since the day he died.
One of my fav memories of granda is teaching me to swing at the park just down the road, pushing me as high as he could...probably wasnt as high as i remember but it seemed it when i was 4. Proudly taking me for a pint on my 18th birthday...dont think we actually spoke but i felt so very grown up. Just being there.....he may have been my grandfather but he was the closest thing i ever had to a father, and i got just as many tellings off as i did advice...think i was the only member of the family to get yelled by him...just about wet myself at the shock! Cant even remember what i was doing.
I agree with Jordan, christmas aint the same with out Granda, his total joy at having his family around and giving to them, if i can give my children half that kind of love when i have my own family ill have succeded in being a great parent. Ill stop rambling now...
Love you always Granda.
Mel. xxx
My old man was a naval man through and through. You could guarantee that a Boating / yachting magazine could always be found beside his chair. he would longingly look at the boats for sale. I always thought that he was just waiting to retire to spend some of his well earned cash on a boat to sail on Loch Lomond.
On retirement he bought a caravan on Dunnoon overlooking the river Clyde but didn't, buy the boat. He then became ill and died never having gone back to sea until his remains were scattered by the Navy on the Clyde.
I would have loved to sail with my old man as it is something that I have always been keen to do. But with busy lives it has been an aspiration which has been all too easy to put off.
This is a regret I don't intend to repeat. I will make time to sail and enjoy this experience with my kids. Since my dads death I have undertaken a number of sailing courses and am now qualified to sail dinghy's and Keelboats.
On my last course I recall the yacht was bobbing gently on the river Forth as there was very little wind. The silence was deafening and as the yacht slowly approached and passed a buoy I remember being amazed by two large grey seals who were resting on the buoy who gave us a casual glance as we slowly sailed by within feet of them. I thought my old man would have been well impressed. It was awesome.
With some sailing course in the bag and a couple more to do I have a fixed plan that will see me on the seas ( well rivers) with my own Keelboat by 2010.
on this day I struggle to remember the happy times and instead remember sitting with dad as he passed quietly away.....
however another Christmas looms and then I can remember dad in much happier times .
My youngest Jordan said a few weeks ago that Christmas was awful without granda and its very true that we miss his quiet but overwhelming sense of happiness when the kids opened their gifts from him.and his complete joy in having the family around him
Today I will cry for the tired sick man I recall when he passed from our lives,
but always and forever i will remember the man who in his own unique loving way touched many peoples life especially his family.
LOVE YOU DAD
Margaret xxx
i cant help but smile when i think of dads birthday...always a fight between us kids to see who would buy him the chocolate or the socks ,because when asked what he wanted for his birthday thats all he would come up with.! Dad was terribly difficult to buy a gift for but that was all our own doing ,because he was actually very happy with whatever we bought him.even so...imagine our dismay when he was diagnosed with diabetes OH NO! we couldn't ALL buy him socks...
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
I cant help but smile when i think of dads birthday...always a fight between us kids to see who would buy him the chocolate or the socks ,because when asked what he wanted for his birthday thats all he would come up with.! Dad was terribly difficult to buy a gift for but that was all our own doing ,because he was actually very happy with whatever we bought him.even so...imagine our dismay when he was diagnosed with diabetes OH NO! we couldn't ALL buy him socks...
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
i cant help but smile when i think of dads birthday...always a fight between us kids to see who would buy him the chocolate or the socks ,because when asked what he wanted for his birthday thats all he would come up with.! Dad was terribly difficult to buy a gift for but that was all our own doing ,because he was actually very happy with whatever we bought him.even so...imagine our dismay when he was diagnosed with diabetes OH NO! we couldn't ALL buy him socks...
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
John (Mac) was a man who done no harm,
He cared for his family, and kept them warm.
He worked all his days from morning to night
To give his family all he might.
He retired in style,
Only to be told he had a little while
To live his life
With his children and wife.
Hard though it was for those who cared
John - his thoughts he never shared.
Till that time on that Friday when he was told
You could have ten days or maybe more
Depending on what decision you make.
He had to be bold for his sake.
Now he's gone to his home on high,
He's not left us, he'll always be nearby
To love and care for all who know
He'll meet them there when they go.
Fond memories Jane & Sid
(sister-in-law and husband)
Loving lasting memories of my dad at Christmastime,he loved to shop for the whole family usually starting in JULY!!!! but he specially loved to see all the kids opening their presents ! on the very rare occasion that mum and dad did not spend Christmas day with the grandkids then it was usually pointless for my dad! He loved to spoil us all when he could even though most years he got chocolate.....socks....or a cd in return.!He is sorely missed by us all at all times of the year but Christmas is not the same without him.
my husband was a loving man ,but could not always show it. our family meant the world to him,he worked hard for them . he missed out a lot of their young years as he was in the royal navy for 25yrs.he loved all his grandchildren {11} of them.i will always strive to keep his memory alive for them. his loving wife janet
50th Anniversary
Margaret Blackwood nee McDevitt Dec 23, 2008
Thanks Mum love you xxxxxxxx
Gone Fishin
Roy McDevitt Nov 29, 2008
Here said Pops get this on your back and proceeded to laden my 15yr old frame with what must have been the heaviest rucksack we had with us,Follow me , 2miles of hill walking later , we're here he said , Out of breath i sat down, no time for that he said lets get fishin while its still light ,
35 fish between us over night , we had a laugh, hiding from the gillie . early morning we headed home, me barred from going again.
thanx for that memory Dad , i will cherish it all my days .
love and miss you.
Roy
Swings and memorys
mochar11 Nov 28, 2008
One of my fav memories of granda is teaching me to swing at the park just down the road, pushing me as high as he could...probably wasnt as high as i remember but it seemed it when i was 4. Proudly taking me for a pint on my 18th birthday...dont think we actually spoke but i felt so very grown up. Just being there.....he may have been my grandfather but he was the closest thing i ever had to a father, and i got just as many tellings off as i did advice...think i was the only member of the family to get yelled by him...just about wet myself at the shock! Cant even remember what i was doing.
I agree with Jordan, christmas aint the same with out Granda, his total joy at having his family around and giving to them, if i can give my children half that kind of love when i have my own family ill have succeded in being a great parent. Ill stop rambling now...
Love you always Granda.
Mel. xxx
Things we should have done
keithmcdevitt Nov 28, 2008
On retirement he bought a caravan on Dunnoon overlooking the river Clyde but didn't, buy the boat. He then became ill and died never having gone back to sea until his remains were scattered by the Navy on the Clyde.
I would have loved to sail with my old man as it is something that I have always been keen to do. But with busy lives it has been an aspiration which has been all too easy to put off.
This is a regret I don't intend to repeat. I will make time to sail and enjoy this experience with my kids. Since my dads death I have undertaken a number of sailing courses and am now qualified to sail dinghy's and Keelboats.
On my last course I recall the yacht was bobbing gently on the river Forth as there was very little wind. The silence was deafening and as the yacht slowly approached and passed a buoy I remember being amazed by two large grey seals who were resting on the buoy who gave us a casual glance as we slowly sailed by within feet of them. I thought my old man would have been well impressed. It was awesome.
With some sailing course in the bag and a couple more to do I have a fixed plan that will see me on the seas ( well rivers) with my own Keelboat by 2010.
Keith
always and forever
Margaret Blackwood Nov 28, 2008
however another Christmas looms and then I can remember dad in much happier times .
My youngest Jordan said a few weeks ago that Christmas was awful without granda and its very true that we miss his quiet but overwhelming sense of happiness when the kids opened their gifts from him.and his complete joy in having the family around him
Today I will cry for the tired sick man I recall when he passed from our lives,
but always and forever i will remember the man who in his own unique loving way touched many peoples life especially his family.
LOVE YOU DAD
Margaret xxx
BIRTHDAY
Margaret Blackwood nee McDevitt Oct 01, 2008
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
BIRTHDAY
Margaret Blackwood nee McDevitt Oct 01, 2008
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
BIRTHDAY
Margaret Blackwood nee McDevitt Oct 01, 2008
joking aside we wish he was still here to buy anything at all
love and miss you always da'
margaret xxxx
My Memory
janeevansply Aug 11, 2008
He cared for his family, and kept them warm.
He worked all his days from morning to night
To give his family all he might.
He retired in style,
Only to be told he had a little while
To live his life
With his children and wife.
Hard though it was for those who cared
John - his thoughts he never shared.
Till that time on that Friday when he was told
You could have ten days or maybe more
Depending on what decision you make.
He had to be bold for his sake.
Now he's gone to his home on high,
He's not left us, he'll always be nearby
To love and care for all who know
He'll meet them there when they go.
Fond memories Jane & Sid
(sister-in-law and husband)
My Memory
Margaret Blackwood nee McDevitt Aug 09, 2008
My Memory
janet.mcdevitt Aug 08, 2008