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Meri Nalbandyan

  • 11 years old
  • Female
  • Born Aug 30, 1997
  • Died Oct 30, 2008
  • Glendale, California, United States
She was such a lovely young girl. How sad.
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Meri Killed at x walk

from the LA times

The woman in the sport utility vehicle looked one way. The child looked another. In an instant, a school crosswalk became a scene of horror.

A day after a Glendale sixth-grader was struck and killed in front of her mother and classmates, school officials, parents and students struggled to make sense of the tragedy Thursday.

"It's every parent's nightmare," said one mother still shaken by the sight of 11-year-old Meri Nalbandyan lying dead on the street outside Eleanor J. Toll Middle School. "What if it were my child? I'd go crazy."

Questions came more easily than answers -- even to the police investigating the driver, a mother who had just dropped off her own child.

"How come the student didn't stop or get out of the way or see the car coming," asked Glendale Police Sgt. Tom Lorenz. "As fate would have it, she too was looking in the wrong direction."

Through a cousin, Meri's parents said they were devastated.

Her mother, Lilit, dropped Meri off at school moments before the accident. She called her daughter "an angel."

Meri's father, Grigor, has returned repeatedly to the crosswalk where the eldest of the family's two daughters lighted candles and lay flowers.

"When we remember Meri, we envision a bright, luminous smile covering her face. She was the embodiment of innocence and purity for us. Now we drown in tears of sorrow," her family said in a statement.

Inside the foyer of the school, Meri's classmates -- some in tears -- scribbled notes on a large, pink poster.

"Dear Meri, you are and always will be my best friend," one girl wrote. "We ♥ u so much. I hope you are watching us in heaven!"

The first poster was already so full by midmorning that another blank board had to be added.

Principal Paula Nelson said Meri's death was a reminder to parents "to slow down, leave 15 minutes earlier and stop."

She said parents should "be defensive drivers and tell their children to be defensive walkers."

After Meri was hit about 8 a.m. by a sport utility vehicle, she was taken to Glendale Adventist Hospital, where she was pronounced dead.

A number of children witnessed the accident, but Nelson said she wasn't sure how many.

She said more than 20 children have met with grief counselors.

All classes spent first period talking about the accident, with students sharing their thoughts. Sixth-graders wrote essays about Meri and drew pictures.

Nelson remembered how excited Meri was to be starting middle school and how enthusiastically she participated in lunchtime activities, such as balloon tosses.

"It was so devastating to me," the principal said. "She was a wonderful bright spot."



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Really close cuzin and friend...

Aleen Avedian Jan 20, 2010

"Im sitting here waiting
dont no wat to do
my heart is still beating, but i dont want it to"

Why is she dead because of someone elses..careless mistake?
Its not fair, she didnt do anythin wrong
She was a child, her life hadnt even begun and that lady took it from her
anywayyy
R.I.P.
we love u and miss u ...

Rest in peace little angel

Mary Jun 18, 2009

I live pretty close to the school that Meri was killed. I remember that day. I was in my kitchen making dinner and I was listening to the news on TV. The words I heard that caught my attention were, "Student Killed", "Glendale", "Toll Middle School". I immediately left the kitchen and went by the TV. And yes, it was true. A student was killed by a driver. I don't know Meri or her family. But I could not stop crying and could not stop thinking about it. I have a daughter myself. At that time, she had just turned one. And I don't know why, but I just kept hugging and kissing my daughter and I was just crying. My immediate thought went out to the mother of Meri. I can't even begin to imagine the pain in her heart and not to mention it happened right before her eyes. I could not stop thinking about what Meri's mom was going through. Over the next few days, Meri could not leave my mind. I decided to go the school and place flowers at the little memorial they had by the crosswalk where she was killed. As I was there, there were friends of Meri in shock, family memers of Meri, some were in grief, some were angry, some just had blank looks in their eyes. I did not know how to feel. Should I be angry at the driver? Should I be angry at the way the crosswalk was situated, or should I be angry at GOD. I just kept asking myself, why? Why did this have to happen to a innocent young girl who had her whole life ahead of her? Why? I then realized what has happened has happened. You can't ask questions, you can't hate anyone, be angry at anyone, you can't ask why. There is a word in Armenian that is used often. It's called Jagadageer. Meaning faith. What road your life will take is etched on your forehead the day you are born. You can't erase it , you cant rewrite it. I just hope that time will heal the hurt for Meri's family. She's in a better place. Rest in peace little angel.

A Friend of Meri's Toll Middle School

Alice Sarkisyan May 29, 2009

I remember the dreadful day. Sirens, gossip, wonder. When I found out the complete truth, I was in utter shock. I couldn't believe it. I had just seen her the other day. Sure she was different, but that was what made her special. I had known her since the very first day of kidnergarten. And now, months later, we still remember the day. I remember when one of teachers that taught Meri and I talked about that day. I remember the poster, the booklet I made, her tributary. But mostly, I remember the day I'll never forget. Just a few days after the loss of our beloved Meri, we heard the clapping of thunder. Our class, and Meri's teacher spread out with joy. It was Mer, telling us that she was all right, high above us in her home, in heaven. From that day on, Toll Middle School has a guardian angel, and her name is Meri.


For the past week, several students have been working exremely hard, and have been making a garden as a tribute to Meri. We miss her so much, and it is hard to cope. The tribute will be Saturday, and everyone is welcome. If you can make it, please to. It is at Toll Middle School, next to her Homeroom teacher's class, 8102.

from the aubry-fuller family...

taza aubry Dec 12, 2008

even though this happened almost a month and a half ago, i still feel horrible when i drop my kids off and keppel and toll. i will continue to keep meri's family in my prayers, especially during the holiday season.

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