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Miriam Engelberg

  • 48 years old
  • Female
  • Born Jan 01, 1958
  • Died Oct 17, 2006
  • United States
This page is dedicated to graphic novelist and cancer survivor Miriam Engelberg whose amazing sense of humor made her an inspiration to so many.
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If you would like to make a donation on behalf of Miriam, visit Miriam's favorite breast cancer-related charity at BAY AREA YOUNG SURVIVORS or donate to Miriam's son Aaron's College Fund by visiting her MEMORIAL DONATIONS page.


ABOUT MIRIAM:

 

When she was only 43, Miriam Engleberg was diagnosed with breast cancer. She chronicled her battle in a series of comic strips that were collected in a book called Cancer Made Me a Shallower Person. It was her way of coping with the shock of diagnosis, surgery, chemotherapy, support groups, and a second cancer diagnosis.

 

She approached it all with a sense of optimism. "When I first wrote the book, it (the cancer) had gone away," said Engelberg, a computer trainer for the nonprofit CompassPoint. "I just assumed that I would be one of the ones where it wouldn’t come back."

 

Engelberg was nearly finished with her book when she learned that her cancer had returned and spread to her brain.


Engelberg said there was only one subject about which she never joked: Her concern for her 9-year-old son, Aaron, and her fears about leaving him without a mother.

 

Many women who followed Engelberg's blog and online comic of the week say they felt a powerful connection.

 

Cartoonist Brian Fies, author of Mom’s Cancer, praised Engelberg's unflinching look at the humorous, embarrassing or unflattering aspects of cancer. On his blog, Fies says he "was amazed by both their raw honesty and the guts it took to write and draw them."

 

 

In honor of Miriam’s talent and spirit, we’d like to present on of her last comic strip.

 


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A bright light in the world

Colleen Jun 21, 2012

A woman brought Miriam's book to our breast cancer support group last night and I read it in one sitting. It made me laugh out loud and validated many of the feelings I've had during the course of my treatment; what a gift! In fact, she wrote some of the exact same things I've said in the past year. I was so sorry to read her cancer returned, and now to find out that she died in 2006. My heart goes out to her husband, son and family and friends. She was a bright light in the world.

Ester

ester Nov 12, 2011

Grazie al tuo libro io ho capito come scrivere. Ti devo tantissimo, guardo il cielo e ti ringrazio, perché grazie a te sto realizzando un sogno.
Farò di tutto affinché il tuo libro diventi ancora più famoso e il mondo sappia che donna di talento e di cuore abbia perso.
Riposa in Pace
Ester

What an inspiration you are!

Abigail May 20, 2011

I just bought Miriam's book 2 days ago, because I love the title. I started reading it right away, and I kept having to put the book down in my lap, in order to have a good laugh!! Oh, Miriam - I love your sense of humour! What a joy you are! I don't have cancer, but my husband, sister, her husband, my mom all either have or have had cancer. I will share this book with them, and I am inspired to try and share as honestly as you and to try and make people laugh, when I write my stories. I am deeply saddened to hear that you are on the other side - the earth needs people like you and books like your book. Hope to meet you one day, Miriam - in Heaven. With love, Abigail

Thank You

Lorna Apr 25, 2011

I was diagnosed two months ago, and just recently read Miriam's "Shallower Person." I wish I could have told Miriam how much this little book means to me. I'm just starting this journey, and I know that her wisdom and sense of humor will make it a bit easier to take. Thank you.

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