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Olaide Olaitan Debola-Gbadebo

  • 48 years old
  • Female
  • Born Dec 26, 1959
  • Died Mar 10, 2008
  • London, United Kingdom
This page is dedicated to the loving memory of our dear mother and friend. Its still so hard to believe that she has departed us and now rests in perfect peace in the Lord. You're welcome to add photos and memories to this page. Thanks for visiting.
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Our Angel

Olaide Olaitan, daughter of Alhaji & Alhaja Adegbite was born in Ibadan, Oyo state. She had 3 brothers and 3sisters and attended St. Teresa's college (of which she was very proud). She went on to University of Lagos where she studied Botany but later completed her ACCA certification and became a Chatered Accountant. She started her career at National Oil, Marina, Lagos and worked with the company for a long period of time.
She was always business minded and so she traveled to Dubai, Austria, and other parts of the world to buy gold and fabrics that she sold. Eventually, she opened her own shop selling fabrics whilst she worked simultaneously as an Accountant.
She was very family oriented and everything she did was clearly to make us all happy. She rented a place in Ikeja  and later in Ajah where the family all lived together. Then her brother (Lekan Adegbite) helped build her own house also in Ajah so we could have our own place and Alhaja lived with us.
When we were younger, she would always sing and dance with us. I thought her smile was the most beautiful thing ever. It still warms my heart when I picture it in my head now. We could talk to her about anything and I remember telling her she was not just our mother, but also a good friend. She was very fond of Abimbola and Demilade but we knew she loved each and everyone of us the same -Mayowa, Morayo, Abimbola, Ajoke, and Demilade.
She took then chance to resign from National Oil and move the family to the U.K. for a better quality of life. She consented us before making this decision, as was mostly the case. She certainly worked very hard in the 6 years during which she resided in the U.K. and was able to purchase her own house and develop a very promising company, Care Ministry Ltd which she ran successfully on her own.
She came to visit Abi and I in Canada for my 21st birthday in 2007 and that was the most pleasant surprise of my life. The way she looked at the both of us, you could tell she was so proud of us and happy to be there with us. Our friends thought she was very cool. That was one of the most amazing summers. She decided then that she wanted to move to Canada and could not wait to attend my graduation with her "gele" and an attire that would outshine my boring graduation gown the following year. She did not make it physically but I know she was there.
Throughout her life, she was a devout Christian who went to Church on Sundays, prayed with the family at home, and asked God's guidance in life. She taught her kids to pray and sent us to a good Catholic school.
She was hospitalized in December 2008 and in March 2009, lost her battle with Cholangiocarcinoma, the cancer that took our angel away from us.

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Memories

Days like this....

morayoninalowo Jul 07, 2010

.....if I could wish for anything on my 24th birthday, it wouldbe to have you show up again in Toronto to surprise me like you did for my 21st. Days like this, I miss you even more. My heart is filled with love and my eyes with tears of of the joy we shared and how much I wish you were here. But you're always here because your memory lives. I really couldn't have asked for a better mum than you. God be with you til we meet again. Amen.

Still can't believe u're gone

aby2dy4 Apr 01, 2010

Hmmmmmm, my wonderful aunt Laide, everytime i think of u, the first thing i remember is ur lovely smile.... U were just sooooooooooo on point, very, very understanding, nice, caring, and o soooooooooooo pleasant, i don't think i ever saw u angry. i remember the last time i saw u, at Mo's place wen u came visiting in 2006, u made me, Michelle and Wale iyan and efo with egusi, n i remeber michelle could not handle the pepper but myself n Wale loved it. We took pictures, gisted, u advised me, u even triedcalling my mum but u didn't get thru, now i really wished u did. N i remember going home thinking to myself "wow, it was soooo good seein aunt Laide after soooooo many years", who would have thot that that'll be the last... You came in summer of 2007 but unfortunately for me i went home for hols, but i spoke to u wen i called Abi on her bday n u asked to speak to my sisters which u did, awwww aunty why, why why, i soooooooooooo can't believe u are gone....
I was in the middle of a presentation wen i got the news of your demise,n i couldn't control myself cos i couldn't just imagine dat such a lively soul could be gone just like dat, i knw it is the will of GOD hence he needed you more than we all did. At Mo, Abi, Joke and Bobo, may GOD continue to give u guys the strength and perseverance to deal with your loss, and i know it's not been easy but i'm soooooo proud of u guys and i'm very sure your mum is as well because u all have been very brave..
My dearest, sweet aunty Laide, i will never forget you, may your beautiful soul continue to rest in perfect peace, 'E sun re o'...... It is well with our souls, amen...

my memory

demininas Mar 13, 2010

I was fortunate to know Aunt Laide in my early years of life and always remembered her to be a gentle soul. Who could forget my attachments to Morayo and Bimbo when she came to Surulere to go get a shawama at flavors. Those fridays were always the best. She always had a smile in her face no matter what the situation was. She brought up four beautiful beautiful children, two of the girls who I have cherished as sisters and I was also fortunate to grow up with....The attributes of this hard working woman that should be reciprocated and have been shown in her M and B are the drive and ambition at which she lived life. She lives on forever in our memories

Aunt Laide

mayowa alli Mar 11, 2010

I was around when she came to visit for morayo's birthday....that was the first time i had seen her since i was knee-high. She was so full of life...fun-loving and endearing. She will always remain in our hearts....we all love and miss you so much....

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