Robert Edward Carmody
- 65 years old
- Male
- Born Dec 13, 1942
- Died May 14, 2008
- Haddonfield, New Jersey, United States
About
Obituary
Robert E. Carmody, of Haddonfield, died on May 14. He was 65. Mr. Carmody was the husband of Sara Jane (nee Morris) and father of Drew and Heather, all of Haddonfield. He is also survived by his twin, Richard of S.C. and another brother Paul of Indiana.
Mr. Carmody was an honors graduate of the University of Virginia. He served in several senior positions as a human resources Information Director/Vice President for State Farm Insurance., Cigna Corp., and IBI of NYC. Additionally, he had his own private consulting practice.
Mr. Carmody's family received friends Sunday from 7 to 9 p.m. in Felten Parlor at the Haddonfield United Methodist Church, 29 Warwick Road, Haddonfield, where his memorial service followed on Monday at 11 a.m. in the Sanctuary.
Memorial donations may be made in Mr. Carmody's name to Hope for Depression Research Fund, 667 Madison Avenue, 2nd floor, New York City, NY 10021. Arrangements were handled by Kain-Murphy Funeral Services of Haddonfield.

My memory
Heather Nov 17, 2009
"Youth is not a time of life - it is a state of mind. It is not a matter of red cheeks, red lips and supple knees. It is a temper of the will; a quality of the imagination; a vigor of the emotions; it is a freshness of the deep springs of life. Youth means a tempermental predominance of courage over timidity, of the appetite for adventure over a life of ease. This often exists in a man of fifty, more than in a boy of twenty. Nobody grows old by merely living a number of years; people grow old by deserting their ideals."
- Samuel Ullman
Despite the times that were dark and difficult, he still managed to bring the spirit of this quote--the joy and lthe aughter into the lives of so many that knew him.
My memory
Heather Nov 17, 2009
He was my friend
Mark R Friedman Jul 27, 2009
I've had problems with chronic depression all of my life (recently diagnosed as ADHD/LD) and, sadly, have had only a single friend during my adult life, Bob.
Bob and talked at length about our emotional issues, concerns and philosophies. I knew he was bipolar and his depressions ran deep. Mine did, too.
I also hated the medication I was taking, as did he.
He was the only person who was able to make me laugh. One of his favorite comments to me was: "I'm older than you are, and I always will be."
Since I left IBI in 2000, we drifted apart, talking occasionally - and that was OK because the bond we had formed was renewed each time we talked.
The last time I recall we talked was to make plans to see the Crosby, Stills, Nash and Young reunion concert in MSG in 2006. We exchanged emails from time-to-time after that. The last one I have is from August, 2007.
I'd been trying to reach him for the past several months - I needed to see him again and was intending to drive down to do so. And only yesterday, 7/26/09, I talked to Jane, who told me.
I miss him very, very much.