The day before you died we sat and had tea and bickies ...lemon puffs. you said how you used to love them and how you hadn't had them in yonks. I asked how long was a yonk...You said "how the ***do i know!"
Well to some people its seems like yonks since you died but you know what...It feels so raw it could be yesterday. I miss you so much. the good thing is that i will have all the memories of our chats, tea and bickies and much much more...
Two years today since you passed away. It doesn't get any easier, but I'm trying to remember all the good times we had rather than just the sad time at the end.
Thinking about the donkey rides at New Brighton, and standing in our wellies in the waterfalls in Wales...and choosing horrible pigs trotters from the meat market, and walking along the battlement walls in Chester, you and mum lighting the gas-lamps in the caravan, xmas mornings buried in toys, all the easter eggs on the windowsill in order of importance, you teasing mum with the pet spider.....
You were such a great Dad, and we'll never stop missing you.I heard someone quoting Tennyson yesterday.."But oh for the touch of a vanished hand, And the sound of a voice that is still!"
Love and miss you....P.xxxx
It's been 12 long months Grandad since you were taken from us. We talk about you all the time, Grandad this Grandad that... you're in our thoughts every single day. The pain hasn't gotten any easier, but we pull together and stay strong. It's just like Nan says, Sundays will never be the same.....
Linking into craigs memory, Young Tommy and Irene would play hairdressers...We would stand behind Dad (who was sitting comfortably in his chair) and part his hair...we each had our own side...there would be a variety of equipment used, including slides, rollers and hair cream. Sometimes Dad would fall asleep...He got a funny look one day when he was hastly awoken by a knock on the door...he just couldn't understand why he was getting the funny looks until he saw his reflection in the hall mirror, there he was in all his glory...3 very large pink rollers!
Patsy and Graeme would later carry on this tradition...
McGRATH TOM August 22 78th Birthday (You will never be alone, not for one single day, your memory is beside us. It will never fade away, sadness will always be there, time will ease the pain, we have faith that in another place we will meet again. Our love always.) - Rene and family.
I have recently heard of the pasing of Tommy. May I offer my sincere condolences. Tommy was a good friend when we both worked in Bibby's, I used to often pop into the boiler house and have a good natter. Tommy and I were also good drinking buddies, many a time we would have a good bevvy in the 'King Eddie'.
Tommy was a great lad. I am sorry to hear of his passing.
On Tuesday 14th August 2007, 6 members of the family went to Gougane Barra, a beautiful remote place in the mountains of Cork in Ireland. We spent some time remembering Dad, and scattered some of his ashes in the wind onto the lake. It is a powerful and peaceful place, and a perfect location for Dad to explore!
Today would have been Dad's 78th birthday. Last year, he said he was "77 Sunset Strip" and next he would be "78 trombones"......
Every birthday we would have a tea party at home, and Dad would create his fantasy menu for mum to prepare....the house would be so crowded with family members that we usually would spend most of the day in the garden, eating and joking and telling stories. Dad would always get some novelty gifts, such as funny teeth, false moustaches, glasses with eyes on springs, curly straws etc, and he would keep the kids in the family amused for hours..... We'll all miss him especially today.....
"Loving you is easy, we do it every day. Missing you's a heartache that will not go away..."
Grandad loved his chair and had everything he could possibly need arranged around it, it was probably the most comfortable chair in the house because he had enormous cushions on it. When we were kids me lindsay and sam (and later jacob and robyn) would dive into his chair the minute he left the room, when he saw us on the way back he pretend to be a monster to chase us away, as we got bigger and less scared of the monster he would have to pick us up and carry us away.
Tom was a great swimmer, and when his kids were young he used to take us to the Harold Davies pool, and also swimming in the sea. In later years he enjoyed the paddling pool in the garden with Jacob, as shown here, and would tease us all by pretending to wear a knotted hanky for the full seaside feel....
Seamus Thomas was born just a few weeks before Tom passed away. He was the third great-grand-child, and his namesake in Irish....When he heard of his birth he was so proud, and was very tearful....
Tom had a seriously thick head of hair throughout his life....this was his last passport photo, which he didn't like at all, as he thought it made him look bald!!!
my dad
irene mills May 19, 2009
Well to some people its seems like yonks since you died but you know what...It feels so raw it could be yesterday. I miss you so much. the good thing is that i will have all the memories of our chats, tea and bickies and much much more...
2nd Anniversary
Patsy May 17, 2009
Thinking about the donkey rides at New Brighton, and standing in our wellies in the waterfalls in Wales...and choosing horrible pigs trotters from the meat market, and walking along the battlement walls in Chester, you and mum lighting the gas-lamps in the caravan, xmas mornings buried in toys, all the easter eggs on the windowsill in order of importance, you teasing mum with the pet spider.....
You were such a great Dad, and we'll never stop missing you.I heard someone quoting Tennyson yesterday.."But oh for the touch of a vanished hand, And the sound of a voice that is still!"
Love and miss you....P.xxxx
One year on.......
Sami McGrath May 17, 2008
Dads chair part 2
irene mills (daughter) Sep 13, 2007
Patsy and Graeme would later carry on this tradition...
From Liverpool Echo August 22
Rene and family Aug 28, 2007
McGRATH TOM August 22 78th Birthday (You will never be alone, not for one single day, your memory is beside us. It will never fade away, sadness will always be there, time will ease the pain, we have faith that in another place we will meet again. Our love always.) - Rene and family.
To Tommy's wife and family
Stanley Evans and family Aug 24, 2007
Tommy was a great lad. I am sorry to hear of his passing.
On the wind at Gougane Barra
Patsy Aug 22, 2007
78 Trombones - Dad's birthday today 22 August
Patsy Aug 22, 2007
Every birthday we would have a tea party at home, and Dad would create his fantasy menu for mum to prepare....the house would be so crowded with family members that we usually would spend most of the day in the garden, eating and joking and telling stories. Dad would always get some novelty gifts, such as funny teeth, false moustaches, glasses with eyes on springs, curly straws etc, and he would keep the kids in the family amused for hours..... We'll all miss him especially today.....
"Loving you is easy, we do it every day. Missing you's a heartache that will not go away..."
"His Chair"
craig mcgrath Aug 11, 2007
Paddling with Jacob
Patsy Aug 03, 2007
Baby Seamus
Patsy Aug 01, 2007
Do I look baldy on this?
Patsy Aug 01, 2007