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Memories of Ursula Sunshine Assaid

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gina lori 5 days ago

Cant believe there are such heartless adults out there even parents .
I know its hard to see really whats going on behind closed doors until its too late . Especially with small children or babies who dont understand why this is happening to them and even if its normal . I wish I could have the chance to meet him ,I would invite him over to my place and what a most horrible agonizing time he would have with the men I would hire to torture him for weeks on end . I d make him swallow the largest box of tide detergent i could find ...

Ursula <3

Kimberly Hunt Dec 19, 2011

My mother read this book to me & my sister when I was 12 & my sister was 16. My mom read it to us every night a little at a time. I cried every night. This is the SADDEST book i've EVER read! I'm now 21 years old & have an amazing daughter of my own that is now 5 years old as of 2011. She is the GREATEST thing that ever happen to me. I just don't understand how a mother could let something like that happen to her 5 year old daughter. & as for him, how could he could do that to a 5 year old little girl. =/ She was so BEAUTIFUL! R.i.P BABYGiRL, <3

Precise angel.

Jennifer Dec 01, 2011

I read this book when I was in the 7th grade, I am now 30 years old with two children. To this day I still think about this little girl and the abuse she went thru. I do punish my children and whip their butts when needed, but when it comes to someone else punishing my child I freak out and insist it was uncalled for. I think I am like this because of this book. I was sexual abused by my stepfather for several years in elementary school. This story still haunts me to this day and sometime I judge people and watch people around my neighborhood all the time. I have called on someone before just because I wanted to make sure the child was ok. I made sure to tell the people that I called that I wasnt 100% sure something bad was going on, but I did have a bad feeling and wanted to make sure everything was ok. I also stated that I didnt want to feel quilty if something did happen and I didnt call. If you suspect something is wrong, let someone know. Ursula Sunshune Assaid will always be remember and loved by me. I feel like I know her and she is a part of me. A part to make me more aware of people around me. My children when they are of age, I will have them read the book and make aware of child abuse and how talking and speaking is the way to go, not to keep it inside and hope that no one finds out. Speak Up you could save a life. RIP my angel.
Jennifer

I knew Ursula

Christina Nov 03, 2011

I was 9 years old and Ursula lived across the street from us. She would spend the night at our home and we took her to see the movie Bambi. To this day I still remember that vividly.
It really makes me angry when I hear that people knew things were going on and never said anything. My parents who were called as witnesses at Donald and Susan's trial told the prosecution my mother had went to our school and spoke to the principal because Ursula seemed sad. She had always been a very happy girl but towards the end she wasn't.

Her mother did my parents she couldn't have anything to drink but that was later and her explanation was " she wet the bed" so when she spent the night they didn't want her to have an accident.

She never was thin or had any bruises on her. My parents did inquire several times as to where she was and they were told she had moved to her fathers in California.

I wish people would understand no one had any idea she was being tortured or starved......the author of the book specifically says no one did anything about her abuse and we were silent.

If you noticed a little girl who seemed sad over a few weeks time would think she was being tortured and abuse??? Especially if there was not a mark on her?? No, you wouldn't......the only ones guilty of her death were Susan and Donald, not the neighbors, teachers or friends.
I am glad Ursula is no longer suffering....she really was a beautiful, sweet little girl.

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Karen McKechnie Sep 15, 2011

I first read about this horrific tale of abuse about a year ago and I can not shake it from my mind. Probably because I have two little girls of my own, 6 and 3 years old, and couldn't ever imagine of hurting my children or letting someone else hurt them. They would have to get through me first! The only consolation I have from this is to believe that she is an angel in heaven watching over other children. Rest in peace sweet angel, play and be happy wherever your spirit is.

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brenda benjamin Sep 01, 2011

this affected so much that I convinced my daughter to name my grandaughter ursula,she was born july 28 1987,Im from orlando fla,

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Keelin Aug 02, 2011

I read the book while in college for an edcuational psychology class. I will never understand why one person would hurt a child in that way and why a mother would stand by and not say or do anything. I brought the book to work and some of my coworkers read the book as well and they were put into tears because of the horrid abuse that Ursula was put through. This story has made me realize, if I don't say anything, who will?

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Dijah parrish Jul 23, 2011

i was in 2nd grade wenn my oldder sister read this story to me I WAS so young and just couldnt quite understand how could someone just sit back and watch this happen to their child???? I prayed for her every single night for about a whole night......I later read her story on my own when i was in 7th grade and it brought tears to my eyes...I am now in the 11th grade and i still think about this child who life did not have to end the way it did....rip ms.Sunshine

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Maritza Jul 20, 2011

I was about 12 years old when i read this book. I am no 37 years old and this book is still impacting my life. I will never ever forget Ursula or the horrific things she was put through. I have a 15 year old daughter and am currently shopping around on line for the book.. I think every child should read this.. actually everyone should read this story. Eyes need to be opened ...

So far every where i look sells the book for way more than i can afford. I do not remember this book being so expensive when i was young. Some places have it for over 100.00 dollars? eeek.. will continue to look

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Jamie Jul 18, 2011

I first read this book when I was about 11 or 12. I would read it over and over again, and I remember being so sad for her and just wishing I could jump in the story and save her. I am now almost 30, and have not read this book since, but have thought about her and this story a lot. I am going to order this book so I can have my daughter read it, and maybe it will help her understand these kinds of situations and maybe speak up for a person who cannot speak up for themselves.

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Sophia Jul 06, 2011

when i read this book i was horrified that everyone could ignore the sings of abuse on this poor baby. Now jsutice has allowed another baby to die, Callee Anthony. i will never forget Sunshine, and i am dying inside to see another abused child killed, and penalty ignored for the mother.

Christina (Nov 03, 2011)

Ursula lived across the street from us. There were no signs of abuse....she never was thin or had a bruise on her. My parents were witnesses at Susan and Donald's trial and said the only thing they noticed was that towards the end she didn't seem happy. Her eyes didn't have the same flicker they used to. My mom went to our school principal and mentioned it.. I'm sorry I read the book and some of it is simply not true.

Dijah parrish (Jul 23, 2011)

JUSTICE NEED TO BE SERVED

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Bridjette Jul 05, 2011

I read about Ursula when i was 8 years old. her story got me through mine. i have 4 children now and am 31 years old. i wanted to give up on life before, but how could i when this 5 year old little fought so hard for her life. i have never and will never forget this little girl.

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