Victoria Lyn Whited Tribute

Aunt Vickey I'm so sorry for what I did you knew that I did something that night at Justin and Nicks house and you told my mom. I denied it until yesterday and I'm sorry because it cost you and my mom your friendship and ya'll never got to say good-bye or I love you to each other before you passed. You nor mom know how bad I feel I carry that weight on my shoulders every single day. I really felt bad going to your service and not telling my mom that I did do something with Justin that night, but what everyone doesn't know is that I didn't do it willingly I was, in my eyes raped. Because I gave up he was 23 years old and I was 17 and he was 3 times my size you remember I was a tiny thing I only weighed 135 back then. I really miss you and I am truly and deeply sorry for what I did. I wish I could turn back time so you would be back here again and I could re-do that night over again cause I surely wouldn't do it the way I did. I just wish you and mom could feel my pain that I live with everyday I don't know any other way to say I'm sorry. I LOVE YOU and I hope you and mom will forgive me one day. On another note i wish you could see James he is getting so big and I wish he could know the Aunt Vickey I know. He would love you and I wish you could meet my husband you would really like him he is a lot like you. Everyday I talk to him I see and hear you talking back to me. I LOVE YOU SOOO MUCH AUNT VICKEY!!!! I don't know what more to say.

LOVE ALWAYS
Tiffany Miller

You can never pick just one favorite memory with someone like Vickey, because they were all so special. One that really sticks out is the first time I went to crown lake with all you guys. I had never been on a fast boat like that before so I was already scared, and little miss Brittany wanted me to get on the tube. I'm sure I turned white from fear and I felt a warm hand on my shoulder, it was Vickey. She said I promise you'll be fine, I wouldn't let anything happen to you babe. That was probably the most fun I had that summer and it was all because she talked me into it. She encouraged me to do things I never thought I'd do. She was like another mother to me, and for that she will always be remembered.