It is almost one year to the day that Diane passed away. I still often wonder, where is she now? Is she in a better place, and is she happy or sad? Does she know of those she left behind who still miss her, love her and think of her?
It’s a terrible injustice, a wrong that cannot be righted. I often visit her niche at the All Saints Chapel just to tell her that I miss her and that I think of her still. This is something that will not change for the rest of my days.
Grateful thanks to Fang Fang, Keralyn and all the others who have come forward to share their memories and photos of Diane, and I still hope that the others will also come forward to share their memories on this site. Let’s not forget her, ever…
I am still so angry about what had happened.
I'm angry about who might have caused your death. Sometimes I blame you. Such a graceful and beautiful person who left us without anymore physical contact. Just lots of questions wondering who took you away, "Who"? "Why"?, "Who"?
As teenagers, we played and laughed and talked all day, everyday. That was in the 80's when we all wanted to be Madonna and Cyndi Lauper. We wanted to disco every weekend even we're still a little under age. You always ordered Gin n' tonic or Vodka Lime. You always know how to dress, and you always look good. You're always so generous too. I still have the party pictures of us wearing what we've borrowed from you and your sisters, Judy and Keral. So sweet like you.
At that age, we talked mostly about boys and love(we thought we know it all). I wished we're still silly like that. That was so simple.
For the past twenty years, our friendship had not changed. Our lives seemed more complex. There are times we still can't break through the boy/girl relationship dilema, the stress of our dying parent, issues of money and our career. But what make us any different than other people? We just need to live longer to face them.
Your relief is my grief, Diane. I have no choice but to grieve.
Sad to know that you have left us. Although we first known in an online game and you by the name Dini and we by the name Darklordzen and Darkangel but we seems to get along very well like old friends.
We were expected to have met 1 year before you left and never had thought that was the last and only chance that we were given to meet you.
Cheerful and joyful are the words that make us remember you always. You were never dishearted and willing to bear and face problems right in front of you. You have shown us friendship that none others we knew can offer. With you around, all troubles seems to have gone.
Friendship...........Our last good friend have left us, leaving us living in shame the moment we remember how much you've helped us both gone through our worst moment. And we can never ever able to return you the favour that we've owned.
I always thinking of taking a chance to thank you after 1 year when our situation were better and stable but that moment will never come.
Friendship...........We did our best to seach through internet/ newspapers/ friends/ your workplace/ ceremteries and even called any place we can thought of 1 by 1 to find your resting place to pay our respect to you.
But Diane isn't the world around you can make you stay? Do you have to resolve to that? You can always come to us as you're most welcome to share your pains and sorrows with us.
My wife and i will always remember you as our best friend that always share her joy and happyness with us. Rest In Peace.
Diane niche is at ALL SAINTS CHAPEL at Poh Huat Road. She is at Block 3A level 2. turn left. Her 1st death anniversary is coming up. Thank you again for your kind respect for my dear sister, Diane. If you want to contact me you can reach me on mobile +65 966 966 82 or email me keralyn.chak@gmail.com
Get to know her thru online game. Althrough it is not a very long time, but she is a girl who you will want as a good friend. Only get to know her demise on Christmas. Was very sad and couldn't accept that she had leave us. She was such a nice, sweet, gentle and beautiful girl. Have been trying to get her information, but to no avail. But just kept trying, until I got this web. Just recently on her birthday, sms her to wish her Happy Birthday, never knew that she is no longer with us. Even on the road, will be keeping a lookout for her car. Had also sms her several time this year, but she didn't reply, and we thought she was too busy. On this year 26th Jan, we had arranged for a meet up, but miss each another as we went to difference location. We say to meet some other time. But it is just after 3 week and she is gone. So in short, do cherish and love each another. Rest In Peace Diane
A Year Later...
Chai Kuan Goh Feb 16, 2009
It’s a terrible injustice, a wrong that cannot be righted. I often visit her niche at the All Saints Chapel just to tell her that I miss her and that I think of her still. This is something that will not change for the rest of my days.
Grateful thanks to Fang Fang, Keralyn and all the others who have come forward to share their memories and photos of Diane, and I still hope that the others will also come forward to share their memories on this site. Let’s not forget her, ever…
Trying to remember you
fang fang Feb 09, 2009
I'm angry about who might have caused your death. Sometimes I blame you. Such a graceful and beautiful person who left us without anymore physical contact. Just lots of questions wondering who took you away, "Who"? "Why"?, "Who"?
As teenagers, we played and laughed and talked all day, everyday. That was in the 80's when we all wanted to be Madonna and Cyndi Lauper. We wanted to disco every weekend even we're still a little under age. You always ordered Gin n' tonic or Vodka Lime. You always know how to dress, and you always look good. You're always so generous too. I still have the party pictures of us wearing what we've borrowed from you and your sisters, Judy and Keral. So sweet like you.
At that age, we talked mostly about boys and love(we thought we know it all). I wished we're still silly like that. That was so simple.
For the past twenty years, our friendship had not changed. Our lives seemed more complex. There are times we still can't break through the boy/girl relationship dilema, the stress of our dying parent, issues of money and our career. But what make us any different than other people? We just need to live longer to face them.
Your relief is my grief, Diane. I have no choice but to grieve.
Really miss you!
Isnt the world good enough?
Zen Hon Jan 13, 2009
We were expected to have met 1 year before you left and never had thought that was the last and only chance that we were given to meet you.
Cheerful and joyful are the words that make us remember you always. You were never dishearted and willing to bear and face problems right in front of you. You have shown us friendship that none others we knew can offer. With you around, all troubles seems to have gone.
Friendship...........Our last good friend have left us, leaving us living in shame the moment we remember how much you've helped us both gone through our worst moment. And we can never ever able to return you the favour that we've owned.
I always thinking of taking a chance to thank you after 1 year when our situation were better and stable but that moment will never come.
Friendship...........We did our best to seach through internet/ newspapers/ friends/ your workplace/ ceremteries and even called any place we can thought of 1 by 1 to find your resting place to pay our respect to you.
But Diane isn't the world around you can make you stay? Do you have to resolve to that? You can always come to us as you're most welcome to share your pains and sorrows with us.
My wife and i will always remember you as our best friend that always share her joy and happyness with us. Rest In Peace.
keralyn Chak (Feb 08, 2009)
We missed her. RIP Diane
Jojo and Zen Dec 29, 2008