I was very sad to learn of Dan's passing. Though I had fallen out of touch with him after 2005, we became close while working together in Boston. Dan was a singular guy; witty, charming, incredibly enterprising. He was enthusiastic about so many things: music, business, innovation. I was always struck by his fearlessness when it came to ideas. I remember in 2003 his idea to buy buses and shuttle New England sports fans to and from games. It seemed as though he saw all challenges as a simple matter of logistics. Anything seemed achievable in his mind. He was a kind, warm, incredibly intelligent and charismatic guy. Thankfully, as I'm sure is the case for many, I have many great memories of time spent with Dan.
I'm so sorry Mr. and Mrs. Guarda, and Dan's sister, about whom he spoke so sweetly.
I came across your tribute to a beautiful young man. I cry, because I feel the loss of never having known him. Cherish his memories and always share them with others. I honor your loss and take from this a spark of "what if." May your family NEVER forget you Dan.
I know your pain,I lost my beautiful daughter March 2006 .I run a child loss website and forum [free of cost] For more support please visit www.mychildlossgrief.org/
Again I am so sorry.Your son is beautiful
Louise Lagerman
A year ago, when someone very close to me passed away, I found this poem:
"I am standing upon the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then some one at my side says: 'There, she is gone!'
'Gone where?'
Gone from my sight.
That is all.
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when some one at my side says: 'There, she is gone!' there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: 'Here she comes!'
La mort n'est rien, je suis simplement passé dans la pièce à côté.
Je suis moi, vous êtes vous,
Ce que nous étions les uns pour les autres,
nous le sommes toujours.
Donnez-moi le nom que vous m'avez toujours donné,
Parlez-moi comme vous l'avez toujours fait,
N'employez pas un ton solennel ou triste,
Continuez à rire de ce qui nous a fait rire ensemble,
Priez, souriez, pensez à moi,
Que mon nom soit prononcé comme il l'a toujours été,
Sans emphase d'aucune sorte, sans trace d'ombre.
La vie signifie ce que elle a toujours signifié.
Elle est ce qu'elle a toujours été.
Le fil n'est pas coupé,
Simplement parce que je suis hors de votre vue.
Je vous attends, je ne suis pas loin,
Juste de l'autre côté du chemin.
Vous voyez - tout est bien.
I knew Dan from MIT...after I met, I thought to myself, what a cool, chill ass bro. He DJ'ed...tight. He spoke a couple of languages...wow. "What, do you juggle too?" Actually, Dan taught me to juggle "Mills Mess" while in Paris. Random to anyone and a memory that anyone might forget. I remember it though. It doesn't grasp all that was this down to earth, clever, funny brother, but I imagine few things do. I am glad I knew him, and I am sorry to hear of his passing.
Number of Memories: 8
This Tribute is sponsored
in the name of Sachin, Helena, Tainá, Pedro
expiration date: 2010-09-13
My memory
Brian Kors Oct 28, 2009
I'm so sorry Mr. and Mrs. Guarda, and Dan's sister, about whom he spoke so sweetly.
I honor your loss
Cameron Jul 12, 2008
I am so sorry for your loss
Louise Lagerman Jun 23, 2008
www.mychildlossgrief.org/
Again I am so sorry.Your son is beautiful
Louise Lagerman
Standing upon the seashore.
Raquel Patuleia Apr 02, 2008
"I am standing upon the seashore.
A ship at my side spreads her white sails to the morning breeze and starts for the blue ocean. She is an object of beauty and strength.
I stand and watch her until at length she hangs like a speck of white cloud just where the sea and sky come to mingle with each other.
Then some one at my side says: 'There, she is gone!'
'Gone where?'
Gone from my sight.
That is all.
She is just as large in mast and hull and spar as she was when she left my side and she is just as able to bear her load of living freight to her destined port.
Her diminished size is in me, not in her. And just at the moment when some one at my side says: 'There, she is gone!' there are other eyes watching her coming, and other voices ready to take up the glad shout: 'Here she comes!'
And that is dying."
By Henry Van Dyke
A Daniel et à sa famille
Betty & Pierre Beck from luxembourg Mar 05, 2008
Je suis moi, vous êtes vous,
Ce que nous étions les uns pour les autres,
nous le sommes toujours.
Donnez-moi le nom que vous m'avez toujours donné,
Parlez-moi comme vous l'avez toujours fait,
N'employez pas un ton solennel ou triste,
Continuez à rire de ce qui nous a fait rire ensemble,
Priez, souriez, pensez à moi,
Que mon nom soit prononcé comme il l'a toujours été,
Sans emphase d'aucune sorte, sans trace d'ombre.
La vie signifie ce que elle a toujours signifié.
Elle est ce qu'elle a toujours été.
Le fil n'est pas coupé,
Simplement parce que je suis hors de votre vue.
Je vous attends, je ne suis pas loin,
Juste de l'autre côté du chemin.
Vous voyez - tout est bien.
Charles Péguy, a french poet
Get Sprung
Kimberly Chao Mar 05, 2008
My Memory
Helena Mar 05, 2008
...and he could juggle to.
Carlos Encalada Feb 05, 2008