My cousin Elaine was and will continue to be a big influence on my life .Her life saving action by pulling me out of a deep cesspit as I clung on with weakening 8 year old arms is one memory.Another is sharing great parties in Essex with her buddies as well as having great chats as we wandered around Mereworth woods. Her lasting influence will be her determination and drive to get things done for her family and friends I don't think Elaine understood the words 'that can't be done' She will be missed sorely but her spirit will continue in Keane, Ailish and Callum