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Happy Birthday mum, me daniel vincent my dad and jim were their 2day ,hope u liked the flowers ,cut the grass all the way round as it was needing it ,hope u have celebrated with the family in some way ,miss and love u always ,tamera sends all her love L.I.P. Godbless yous all XXX.

this is your thid birthday away from us betty but your always in out hearts and thoughts ..god bless xxxxx

hi ma happy birthday miss you loads hope your up there having a party with nana and granda and puting all the records on the way you alwasy did. vinnys up so we will be going down to your grave shortly with fresh flowers for you.havent felt your presance for a wile come soon please. love and miss you loads god bless X X X

ROSES ARE RED VIOLETS ARE BLUE IF ONLY ME AND U IF THAT WERE TRUE XXX LUV U xxx

Just to let you know all the family went to the grave on sunday we all miss you deeply its a void that will never be filled till we meet again. Two years gone in the blink of an eye still its very fresh in the memory (Good and Bad). I will keep sending the prayers up. Love and miss you always xxx

And still fresh in my memory, one that i will never forget , were does the time go .Tamera starts a new topic in school 2mora ;WHEN GRAN WAS A GIRL ; she has to take a photo in of u when u were young and one of the 2 of u 2gether ,its weird that it is just around this time , she speaks of u often , we all miss u ,if only we could turn back the clock ,the pain will stay in my heart till the day we reunite 2gether forever , u r in my mind all the time , Daniels big fourth soon so dont miss the party try and be their in some way , give my luv 2 all the family GOD BLESS YOUS ALL ,FOREVER IN OUR HEARTS XXX

well its been to years since god tock you upstairs.i still remember it like yesterday think of u all the time and miss you.hope your ok i just wish you could show me in some way.its my 40th soon hope youll be there in some way. say hallo to all the family up there for me talk soon mum love and miss you always god bless pray for us X X X

hi ma happy new year love and miss you hope your having a party up there with nana and granda wish you were hear. ant emily up in bernadettes she always came to your at new year. bernie keeping that going it will be good for ant emily to see everyone going up the mora to see her.off to bed now dont like new year much brings back painfull memorys. god bless miss you X X X

hi ma merry xmas this is the second xmas without you and its still not getting any easyer.think of you every day and miss you so much hope that was you in the car with me on xmas day. all the hairs on my back stood up and had goose pimpels all over when marys boy child came on the radio and they only went away when the song finished.do you remember you made us lisen to that song about 10 times before we could open any of our prizes years ago i laugh about it now hope your laughing to. merry xmas and god bless tell all the family i miss them aswell. xxx

Merry Chritmas Ma pass it on to the rest of the family hope your celebrating over there. Lit a candle for you last night at mass hope it helps in some small way. Miss and think of you every day xxxxxxxxx.

hi mum ,sorry havent been on for a while ,comp broke down ,daniel got it sorted for me ,just want to say that we all still think of you everyday and will always be in our hearts , got my wedding dress and shoes ,wish u were hear. well just popped on to wish u a merry xmas , sorry couldnt get the flowers down as the pots were frozen , miss u loads ,love you godbless u and the family,bye for noo XXX

final days of my mum these are just a few pics ive put together. u can find more at www.respectance.com/elizabeth oneill

miss u loads x x x

Lisa and i saw Colin Fry live at the town hall, although you did'nt manage to come through i left feeling very positive with the readings i witnessed. There were 9 messages in the space of 2 hours every message had names, dates, cause of crossing over it was unbelievable. I will continue looking for the little signs and the unexplained phenomina that goes hand in hand with my life. I will still attend some mettings when i can, in the hope you can lift the vail between the 2 worlds. I know you get these messages we all love and miss you terribly. Done some decorating for Da looks good. Put you're photo on the alcove wall so you can look over us all. Pray for you every day hope you liked the flowers. Love you always. xxxxxxxxxx

hi betty , its our wedding anniversary today nd i find myself thinking abou you and that great day four years ago we all had a great time and your hat was bueatiful ,,,, you had a fantastic time and i could see it in yor face ,,you were so proud of vincent seems like a lifetime ago now. we all think about you every day and miss you ..vincent still has all your pictures around the house . we treasure them , the kids look at the photos and talk about you alot aswell . hope your looking down on us nd keeping everyone safe ...... vin jnr got his GCSE results on tuesday,,,he got 2As 7Bs 3Cs he must have got the brains off your side :) i think you would be very proud . we,l never forget you betty ,,love always,, lisa xxxxx

Thought u would have preferred a closer up 1, love u , ALWAYS IN MY HEART xxx.

Tameras first day at school , hope u like it , tamera hasnt forgot u she speaks of u most of the time , and thats good , she said you should have been their to get a piece of cake and celebate papas birthday ,miss u loads ,hope i get this on ,godbless L.I.P.say hello to all the family for me ,nite nite XXX.

Heres a wee photo of me and lara on our first day of school , we meet in the nursery at half twelve , as lara went to another school ,hope u like it , love you XXX goodnite nana love u . dont know why the photo isnt working , will get 1 2 u lv B.T.J XX godbless xx

well dads big 60 , we had a wee surprize for him at lee palace on fri last week , had a nice cake made for him ,put that photo on , the one were he is in the big silver cross pram with the blonde hair and stunning blue eyes , the one you had pinned up beside your bed ,was all rite had a good time , he wasnt expecting it , vincent and wullie had a wee thing as well for him ,tamera said nana should be here with us ,and have a piece of cake ,rite out the blue ,u will always be in her thoughts ,and that is good ,she started school on monday , wish u could have been here to see her , aunt sadie uncle harry suzanne and abigail meet us up their ,good of them to come , you know sadie cards and bags , going 2mora with tamera ,my comp has had a virus , someone up to fix it or would have been on sooner ,jims dad got took in to hospital 2nite with a suspected heart attack , could you say a prayer for him , thank you miss you loads L.I.P. bernadette tamera and jim pray for us , godbless all my love XX

Dont know what happened with photo at last message ,going to try it again ,hope u get it with me and jim on our engagement , daniel is doing ok the now ,i know u were with him on fri ,give him some sort of sign u r beside him when he needs u most , tamera brings u up all the time and i love it ,she will never ever forget u love u , tamera me and jim ,think of u always xx l.i.p. xx.

hi ma its been some time since ive left a message,dont see the point somtime..,but allways looking at the vidoes when i need a good greet.just back from middlesbough getting drunk again,vinny and ma da won the final,my daz leg is getting worse,good news for bernabette and jim getting married,just wish u could be there but i no u will be there in spirit. i was just about to say i havent felt your presance in a wile. then i get all gose pimmples.when writing this i no u are there watching me,got a caravan down ayr u would have loved it.vinnys coming up at the weekend for a bowls game.. and im going to play it will be the first time ive played in years, but im sure my talant will come back after a couple of ends.talk soon ma see ya later miss u X X X

just a wee photo of me and jim at the crown plaza, on our engagment ,miss and love u, L.I.P XXX

Hi mum ,jim proposed to me in the crown plaza ,a couple of weeks ago ,thought u would like to know , the guy showed us to our table , when we got their i said , nobody puts baby in a corner ,just the position of the seating area , but we found it quiet funny , anyway the waiter had brought a bottle of champagne to the table ,and round it was a red ribbon and tied to it was a red envelope ,seen it coming from a distance, i looked and it was heading for my direction ,when it got closer and closer it seemed to have my name on it ,jim said thats for u ,its got your name on, opened it ,i pulled out a card that said MARRY ME ,on it , and inside i found the ring , couldnt believe it , didnt know how i was going to break the news to dad , he already had did that , but u dad he said , what u asking me for , shouldnt u be asking my daughter , jim had phoned him to ask my hand in marriage to give him his place , so he said to me ,i have another surpize for u , u aint going home 2nite ,you are syaying here ,WHAT u kidding havent brought anything with us , all taking care of , he said , In the bag was a wee tube of toothpaste 2 brushes and a small deodarant ,clothes for the next day . WHAT A GUY AH , just wish u could have known him ,came home the next morin ,josie my neighbour , had balloons all the way up the close to my door , WHAT A GAL ,thats who am going on holiday with , The ring is lovely , its half carret white gold ,but the jobs we do ,lets say its a month of my wages plus more ,but he did it , he always said 1 day , didnt think it would hit so soon , but anyway i accepted, not having a party ,but know u will up there with nana and granda , remember nana bought me that outfit for her 90 th birthday party ,she liked it so much ,not long before she passed over she said i would make a beauitful bride , and that will always stick in my head forever ,never forget nana even the gleem in your eye will stay with me more than ever knowing that it is going to happen , my mum brought him to me and that is no lie ,thats my beleives , its true mum when u aint searching ,it comes to u , u taught me that ,thank u ,tell everyone godbless and goodnite, miss u dearly ,L..I.P Bernadette Tamera and JIM love u miss u XX

Hi betty, its Daryl, Sorry i havent been here in a good while, it doesnt mean i dont think of you. was out clubbing the other week and got dropped off at the bottom of the stairs, first time i have walked up them in ages . . . looked in at ur wee house, i used to give you or vince a wee wave when id stoat up them stairs, still feels strange. Me my cousin lauren & Natalie went down to the caravan a few weeks back, Elvis came on the ipod and me and natalie looked at each other then shared some memories of u and our Granda - Elvis 'I just cant help believeing' reminds me of u .. miss u x x

Happy Anniversary x. Hope you'e celebrating it in some way. Dads been down to see you today send him a sign if you can. Love and miss you always. xxxxxxxxx

Well mum thats nearly a year and a half on ,and we are all still missing you terribly, had 1 of my moments 2day ,in the toilet were i work ,sometimes it can happen anywhere , the memories will come flooding back to me that xmas eve when the doc told me u and my dad the devasting outcome of your illness ,still cant beleive miss u lots , wish u could have gone out on sunday with me and tamera 2 get her school uniform in ,it was her graduation on friday , aunt sadie uncle harry rose and jim was there ,wish u could have seen her ,u would have been proud , iwas kept thinking my mum should be here , i know my dad was down in vincents , Vincents car was stolen from the bowling club along with his phone with so many pics on it of you and the family surronding that time ,i know he wont get them back ,but he still has his memories and god by no 1 can ever take that from him ,he is really cut up about it ,can her it in his voice , give him a bit of comfort if u can ,in some way or another ,dad is back early hours so me and tamera will pay him a visit 2mora ,well going 2 bulgaria in oct wiyh josephine down the stairs for a week ,truely miss our holidays 2gether mum keep thinking back to the last 1 on that last sep i spent with u ,i knew u were not rite , keep thinking if only i had did something ,it just wasnt you so sorry ,booked up with jim and tamera for salou on may next year for 2wks , just under a year , betty jims mum got her a couple of outfits for her holiday in aug we r all going to vincents for a week then, i know it is your wedding anniversary coming up on monday ,will be down 2 do a wee clean up , well waiting on the lotto results coming on ,wish me luck , godbless love and miss you everyday R.I.P.xxx tamera jim and me

Just to let you know that i have enroled tamera at John paul 11 2day , it still haunts me when you said , I WONT SEE TAMERA GO TO SCHOOL well here it is and you are not around ,but i know that you will be there in your own way , to see here off on her first day ,going out with aunt sadie soon to get her uniform in she has been saving on a card for MARKS AND SPARKS ,Vincent and wee vincent is up picked them up at queen street th smorin and as usual they have started to drink early ,been on a diet for a month now ,doing well have lost 5lbs , going to get a wing wa 2night think it is well overdue ,Vincent has reset my computer so back on your site , dad goes down to england 2mora for bowls , wish them luck ! well things seem to be moving on , but still in our hearts and soul and always will be , the pain and memories of it all will never leave us you were a great person and mother and still miss you dearly ,think of you all the time , that was me and jim a year past on sunday ,going great wish you could have met him ,well better get going LOVE YOU, L.I.P. GODBLESS ,PRAY FOR US , XXX.

Outdoor starts next week Da will be down for the summer hope its as successfull as last year. Not sure if you would approve but ive got a trial for england next month. Will take Da to a couple meetings if you've anything on you're mind come through for a chat with him, were all trying to move forward in our own way and we all miss you desperately. Bringing Vin up next week pop down with some flowers. Looked at photo of grave there's some ghostley faces in background. Too let you know i've seen you in the flowers you're efforts are appreciated. Love and miss u always xxxxxxxxxx

Just popped on to say hello , cant beleive i forgot vincents birthday and chelseas , see what happens when u r not here ,me a big big girl now and should know these things ,just got a lot going on in my head ,totally oblivious,feel really bad ,how do u make these things up ,cant go back to the past ,CAN U ,the MOTHER WHO ALWAYS REMEMBERED , NEVER FORGET U , MISS U L.I.P GODBLESS XXX.

Finished yet another book TJ HIGGS this time all sorts going through my mind. Will be getting tickets for Colin Fry in september try and come through if you can. Life seems to be flying by must get with the living again. Chelsea turned a teenager the other day 13 yrs in the blink of an eye. Going for a pint 1st in ages wish you could join me miss you xxxxxxxxxx

hi mum ; havent things changed dramaticly, u know what i mean ,just cant beleive it is happening ,i find it very strange and weird ,but what ever makes people happy eh; miss u so much and always will , cant get over what has happened in the year and a half since u left us , nearly that , totally a whole knew world without u , just cant take it in , its hard ,very ,but just got to try and get on with it the best way we know how ,i know you would want him to be happy ,as he would u,love you so much , you will always be my mother and nothing will change that ,GODBLESS L.I.P. XXX

hi anutie betty its william here,sorry for not coming on to this site sooner,just learning how to work a cumputer,plus have the guts to say a few things.have been thinking about you lots,not been a good year for me but still got a smile,anyway hope your up there giving every one an elvis song,cos i remember you singing when we used to stay at your house some weekends,and you used to make me laugh cos when you had a few wee drinks in you ,you would get the words mixed up hehehehe,dont worry cos i do that sober,i know i will see you again and when i do you can give me a wee song,so get the practise in,god bless and see you when am ready to go to heaven.xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

just popped on for a wee chat , abigail was taken to hospital the other nite , aunt sadie uncle harry got a hell of a fright , think they are still in shock , every time the phone goes hes up on arms ,but she is doing fine now ,if u could say a wee prayer for her that will be nice , they are all going on holiday again soon and uncle harry is going this time , a wee family hol , so that will be nice . LOVE AND MISS U EVERYDAY pray for us L.I.P. XXX

Just browseing through 2nite ,love you , always on my mind GODBLESS L.I.P. OUR MUM AND FAMILY PRAY FOR US XXX.

hi nana hope your okay everyone here is fine although havent seen bernadette and all them for a while, i was talking to my friend today and it made me think how much my life has changed and about you. I have only passed your flat once since you passed away and it was very upsetting - knowing your not there, must be extremely upsetting for danny living so close.miss you so much xxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hi Ma, Popped in to say "Happy Mothers Day" hope you're with nana. Tried to keep busy all day no matter what i've done you have been in my head all day. Hope it makes you happy that you are with me always, until my time is up on this side of life love hugs and kisses see you on the other side soon. xxxxxxxxxxxx

HIYA MOTHER YOU HAVE NEVER LEFT MY HEART I LOOK UP 2 U IN EVERY WAY U HAVE MADE ME A STRONGER PERSON AND I LOVE U 4 IT XX L.I.P.

HI MUM, ANOTHER MOTHERS DAY WITHOUT YOU ,THINK OF YOU ALL THE TIME , COMING DOWN 2DAY , THEN GOING TO AUNT SADIES ,THEN TO JIMS MUM AND DADS WHEN I SHOULD BE COMING TO YOURS , THE ONES THAT R STILL HERE ,WONT UNDERSTAND TIL THEY LOSE THEIR OWN THEN THEY WILL KNOW WHAT THEY R MISSING ,MISS YOU TERRIBLE ALTHOUGH I TALK TO YOU EVERYDAY ITS NOT THE SAME ,AS YOU BEING HERE , NEVER WILL BE IN MY CASE , LOVE YOU SO MUCH AND WANT YOU HERE ALTHOUGH NOT POSSIBLE , GODBLESS YOU L.I.P.

Hi Ma, Happy birthday you should be here celebrating went to the grave before i left today hope you like the flowers i will keep talking to you every day (reply soon) miss you loads. xxxxxxxxx

sorry your not here to share your birthday with us betty,but wherever you are hope your at peace and with your mam and dad . still think about you everyday ... god bless you ...lisa xxxxxx

Got the candle lit as usual , was at the grave 2day with jim and tamera ,tidying it up , picking up the dead leaves and trimming the grass , hope u like the flowers ,and a big thank you to granda the other nite for coming through 2 daniel i think he needed it most , he took it diffrent from last time , think he is more opened minded about it now ,think he is going change his job and become a medium lol ,i think he is coming more aware of it now and he may believe in it a bit more, could c it in his face , hope its true , anyway happy birthday ,wish you were here for it , know you have other things to do but will be looking in on us all , going to the braehead arena 2day with tamera to c the 3 princess , snow white cindrella and bella ,she is so looking forward to it ,she thinks of you still , were in rutherglen yesterday , i beg your pardon , i never promiesd you a rose garden , was playing in the shop , and tamera shouted , mum listen , mum , knew she was thinking of that song of you , and in the car she says ,do u miss nana mum , could feel it in my heart , we both miss you , jim has fitted tameras carpet , it looks great , he has done a brillant job of it , he should have been a carpenter lol, fitted the shelfs in the big room in the cupboard ,i wish you could have meet him tamera has took to him so well , wish you had been able to taste my soup, vincent daniel and my dad in jim love it , I go in peace ,godbless love and miss you mum everyday , L.I.P. bernadette jim and tamera XXX HAPPY BIRTHDAY ,

Hope u dont mind ,just looking at the site and reading the messages , makes me feel sad , wish i had done the same for my sister ,i miss her so much ,if you come accross janice will you say hi to her for me , she is missed by everyone in the family ,went to your grave 2day with bernadette and tamera ,and put flowers down , i would just like to say a HAPPY BIRTHDAY BETTY XXX GODBLESS YOU LOVE JIM .

HI MUM GOING TO A PSYCHIC ON WED MITH DANIEL AND MARBARET ,GETTING A PRIVATE READING DONE , AS U KNOW ITS BEEN OVER A YEAR NOW AND WOULD LIKE SOME COMFORT FROM U ,TO KNOW THAT U GO ON IN THE HEAVENLY HOME ,SO PLEASE FEEL MY VIBES AND COM EAND GIVE ME SOME SORT OF MESSAGE THAT I CAN RELATE TO PERSONALLY AND KNOW THAT IT IS U , THANK YOU GOODNITE AND GODBLESS, L.I.P. MISS AND LOVE YOU EVERY DAY XX

HI WELL IF THAT WAS YOU LASTNITE, A MUCH BIG THANK YOU ,IT WAS NEEDED , I WASNT THE LEAST SCARED , WELL IT WILL BE NANAS ANNIVERSARY SOON ,SHE IS STILL IN MY THOUGHTS ALSOAND WILL BE SAYING A FEW PRAYERS ,GOT 2 GO NOW 2 GET TAMERA MISS AND LOVE YOU EVERYDAY ,GODBLESS YOU ALL L.I.P.XXX AND HAPPY VALENTINES

HI MUM, well you know its gran oneills 4th anniversary today ,if you could pass on a message for me ,just to let her know that she is in my thoughts and will say a few prayers for all of you ,wonder what you doing now eh.. Vincent has gave me a couple of more books to read about angels ,found them very interesting , I suppose you have to believe ,I do , theres got to be something , Iam trying to get a book called LIFE AFTER LIFE , i do hope i see you again one day and think i will this cant be thee end ,think of you all the time ,miss you mum GODBLESS XXX L.I.P.

Love and miss you always Until we all meet again Vince, Daniel, Vincent, Bernadette. X X X X

danny oneill

13 years ago

very sad./ still feels like a dream

Bernadette oneill

13 years ago

my mum would have liked all those photos on display , well done vincent xx