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Rach
12 years ago

dang Jay, I will never forget the last time I saw you, I may not have had all the wonderful memories that you shared with the rest of our friends and fam, but you impacted my life all the same. We were at your house watching ABDC.. You had plans to go out that night, I remember you coming to say bye to Me, Jeng & Moms.. Im not sure why JD, but 'for some reason' God wanted you to say 'good bye' to Me!!! I hold that last kiss on my cheek so close to my heart, maybe it's because I have had loved ones takin from Me with NO chance to say good bye, he wanted us to have that. It wasnt like we were best friends or had even known each other as long as a lot of you had, but you were still my brother. You and yours were and still are like another family to Me, you allowed Momz to be my second Mom and for that I am eternally grateful to ALL of you!! Rest in Paradise Jay and continue to watch down on Dad, Mare, Jeng, Smalls and ALL the kids, WE LOVE & MISS you ERRYDAY and we hold you and yours close ALL the time!!!! xoxo FOREVER in OUR hearts

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Rach
12 years ago

dang Jay, I will never forget the last time I saw you, I may not have had all the wonderful memories that you shared with the rest of our friends and fam, but you impacted my life all the same. We were at your house watching ABDC.. You had plans to go out that night, I remember you coming to say bye to Me, Jeng & Moms.. Im not sure why JD, but 'for some reason' God wanted you to say 'good bye' to Me!!! I hold that last kiss on my cheek so close to my heart, maybe it's because I have had loved ones takin from Me with NO chance to say good bye, he wanted us to have that. It wasnt like we were best friends or had even known each other as long as a lot of you had, but you were still my brother. You and yours were and still are like another family to Me, you allowed Momz to be my second Mom and for that I am eternally grateful to ALL of you!! Rest in Paradise Jay and continue to watch down on Dad, Mare, Jeng, Smalls and ALL the kids, WE LOVE & MISS you ERRYDAY and we hold you and yours close ALL the time!!!! xoxo FOREVER in OUR hearts

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Shirley Castro
12 years ago

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Jay Oca
12 years ago

I first met Jason 22 years ago in Junior High when we participated in the Volleyball marathon together. We were on the same team. We reconnected in high school, and played football at Westmoor together, played football at CSM together, and ran the same streets together. He is the godfather of my children and I am the godfather of his. He named his son JayOvanni after me, and I named my first born after him and our other best friend Kerin. I was the best man at his wedding and he was supposed to be mine. There is not one memory that makes me remember Jason, I have too many. Everywhere I go I think of him. Songs that I hear, the places I go, friends and family that I interact with, I think of him. This is the first time I've seen this website, 3 years and 8 months after his death, I've finally had some strength to look up his name. I am close to him in my heart, and his voice, his smile, his character is still so vivid to me. I wish with every breathe in my body that he was still alive today. I lost a big part of my life when he passed away, and i'm still trying to build myself back. Jason wasn't perfect, trust me I know, but I don't reflect on his imperfections and faults, they seem so insignificant now. I miss the little things about him. I miss the joy he brought to a room when he entered. I miss his corny way of greeting me. I miss him complaining. I just wish he was here. He really touched a lot of people and he is still so missed by us all. Nobody can stop us when we were together. I miss you Jason. I love you bro. Your irreplaceable!!!! Jay Oca

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DezDeeGee
12 years ago

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12 years ago

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12 years ago

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12 years ago

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Cameron Abad
12 years ago

uncle JD i miss you so much. its your birthday today, and when you read this or watching me type it, i hope you see it. i love you, nothings the same without u here, you were my ghetto uncle that i used to brag to people about, last time i saw you was at the mall, serramonte. the last thing you said to me was "Bye Cam see you at aunties birthday party. i love you" the last thing i said was " ight then uncle JD" see you there." I never said i love you back. thats why now i say i love you to everybody, cause i might not be able to see them again. tell auntie carol i said hi. Love you uncle JD see you on the other side. Happy Birthday!

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archie abando
12 years ago

Oh my gosh...Im sooo sorry to see this. Jason, you were one of my best friends growing up in Northridge. Its me Archie Abando from Fernando Rivera.I have a sister name Cathy and a brother name Ernie. Ive been trying to find everyone for years but not like this. I never forgot about you guys. All the memories of us playing football, baseball and basketball at the park. We all use to walk to school and walk home. We all use to kick it and hang out alot...almost everyday. You and jeff mendoza were my best friends. I miss you guys. I cant believe that your gone and I cant believe that I never had the chance to ever talk and enjoy memories with you. Your always going to be in our thoughts and prayers and Im never going to forget all the times we shared in fernando and living around the block from each other. If theres anyone that remembers me and wants to contact me email me at thearchie32@gmail.com. Love ya Jason

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LB
12 years ago

I met JD when I worked at Hooter in SF. After a night of perverted jerks asking stupid questions, JD and all his friends came in. He came back to the door and invited me to the table (I was at a different station) and he apologized for his friends being jerks. He was so sweet. We instantly became friends. We hung out a few times, "experimented" with recreational substances, but he ALWAYS stayed at my side to make sure I was ok. He was so sweet :*( RIP JD.

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jevan
14 years ago

so many memories of my bff.. one that stands out is when we got into an altercation wit some cats at a gas station..the biggest dude was comin after me and jd,( lit with a sprained ankle) threw the infamous elbow to his nose and knocked him out.. i love u and miss ur laugh.. u wud laugh n cough at the same time! c u wen i get there.

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Garrett
14 years ago

Jason was my first friend on Xbox live and it's not the same playing without him. Miss you J.D.

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JOE DOZ
14 years ago

IT'S JASON DE LA CRUZ WEEK, AND YOU STILL THE MAN...BUT I STILL GOT YOU, YOU KNOW WHATS UP. BFF,HEEEEHH, CORNZ!!! PUHAHA. MISS YOU LATT MAN!!!

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Jeng
14 years ago

aww how cute! hella BFF..it was great spending JD's 33rd birthday with you and the rest of the hood fam! Happy Birthday bro, we all miss and love you down here!

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K.O.
15 years ago

JD, ITS BEEN ALMOST 1 YEAR AND MY HEART STILL MOURNS FOR YOU AND YOUR FAMILY. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LOVED AND MISSED. REST IN PEACE.

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Jenn
15 years ago

Until this day we miss you JD, I know your resting in a better place. Just last year we ran into you and you had the biggest smile ever, I could only imagine all the fun times we had joking laughing, conversating about our loveones, all the moments we had when we were all teenagers. He was a kind hearted friend, until this day we still think of you. We know your somewhere around visiting from time to time and smiling at your wife and children. Even though your gone we will always keep you in our hearts. You are truly miss until today JD.

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MS
15 years ago

I still can't believe you're gone Jason. I've know Jason since my freshmen year in HS (Westmoor) and he was a sophomore. He was the one that gave me the tour of Westmoor. Sounds cheesy...but he was the same person from the very first day I've met him since the last time I saw him at his Verizon store just a couple of weeks before he past. My high shool memories included Jason especially because I never missed a football game because of him. He's caring, loving, a perfect gentleman, a great father and a perfect friend. I'll miss you dearly J. My prayers go out to your family and beautiful kids. You'll never be replaced. RIP Jason...

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Roobz Esparrago
15 years ago

J.D., I still can't believe you're gone. When I first met him, I was about 3-4 years old cause him&my brother go back since Fernando/we're 10 years apart. Nobody in this world can replace who he was. It was a tragedy when I heard Joey tell me early in the morning that Jason got shot. I gave him a big hug&wondered who&why a person can kill somebody they didn't know.. especially over pizza? That's so stupid! Your memory will forever be w/ us always. We love you Jason.

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Mya
15 years ago

Big J, I will always remember your smile and funny jokes. I love you and wish you were still here. It's not the same without you. You do not know how much youre missed my brother Love Mya

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Jason was a close family friend of 18years. I still remember how we first met him. It's like it was just yesterday...we had just moved to the neighborhood and wanted to go to the park...even though it was all gloomy, foggy and drizzly! That's when I met Jason and Jeremy for the first time. It was so cute to see Jason playing at the park with his brother. That day was so memorable and FUNNY! My friend, V and I were just chillin' on the tireswing and decided to walk around. So Jason, for attention, starts yelling "hey, Hey, HEY...WATCH ME! LOOK!" He had found a rusted up shopping cart and laid it on its side a couple of feet away from the fence. This was when Jason was learning to be a stuntman. As he went into his "On your mark, Get set, GO" position, we giggled cause he was actually looking to make sure we were watching him! So, here goes Jason...making an attempt to hop off the shopping cart (like it was a trampoline) and fly over the fence. He's going (but, remember...it was 'drizzly' like any other DC day) and as he hops on the cart, Jason slips off the wet shopping cart and skids hella hard on the cement!!! We were like, “OMG, is he ok?!” but we all couldn’t help but start cracking up!!! He gets up…with a smile (this is sooo Jason) and says he’s ok. After a few minutes, Jason says he’s gonna go home, but here we are still wanting to hang out…we knew he was in pain tho (but he insisted he was ok). As he limps his way home, he turns, waves and yells out, “I’M OK, GUYS!”… again, w/ a smile. LOL! I miss you, Jason. You brought all of us TOGETHER to laugh and have fun. “Together” is how you’ve always kept it, even at the expense of hurting yourself that day. I love you and miss your bear hugs or when you would sing over the phone and sing slow songs while we were on like a 4 or 5way…or when you would talk or sing with different accents. You didn’t get to fly over the fence that day at the park, but you flew to Heaven, my brother. You’re with Jayovanni and Joshon now and we will all be up there together one day. Watch over us. My heart and deepest condolences goes out to the de la Cruz family. The Mendozas love you.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

There are so many memories with Jason i honestly don't know where to start... Let's see, my fondest one is when all the c.f.b.'s would be together and Jason would make everyone say their mafia names. Mine was "Mamadon". Jay's was "Frankie" . My sister Tez was "Davina". But the best was marcel's. "fettichinni alfredo". I love u Jason and ima take care of Mary, Jayden, Deja, Boo, Mom, Dad, and Jeremy.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Donations can be made to Jason De La Cruz Memorial Trust Fund account # 60061781 at First National Bank. Please repost this bulletin for anyone else who would like to help his immediate family. Thank you.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I'll never forget the day he told me that he would be with my sister forever. he said till death do us part and he lived up to it! you were a good cat Jay! i"ll never forget you!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

My heart goes out to all the friends and family of my dear friend Jason. Although it's been a few years we've lost communication a good friend forever remains a good friend , and in heart, in my thoughts and in my mind that we will always be. Oddly in our recent get-togethers it has been at the passing to eternal life of our immediate friends I must now say you have joined them in paradise that is we're we will meet again. Jason as I share my tears for you may your body now rest in eternal peace and may your soul watchover us all! - 1 LUV ma Nig - Cat Bocog

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Anonymous
15 years ago

What can I say, "he was no IS one of my very bEST friends" I cant go bacc as far as our first memory cuz I've been friends with JD for that long...but I was with him hours before he went on to a better place and he told me before I left " Your like my Luccy Charm "b", good things happen when your with me...I love you, bro" and I said " I love you too cuzz foreal" we both giggled liked we always did....I wish I didnt leave..."I love u cuzz and you will always be my bro!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

We will miss JD when we go on our tournaments and in our leagues. He was the inspirational player on the team, he was the red bull. I will definitely miss his encouraging words his laughter his stare and his beautiful smile. The whole WIZARDS PLAYERS WILL MISS YOU VERY DEARLY. You will always be in our thoughts and in our heart. We love you!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

my first memory of JD and mare was one of the first nights i kicked it with them. it must've been like 2 in the morning and JD asked her to make him something to eat. she hella cooked spam and eggs at 2 in the morning. what a wife...hella spoiled! i'll miss that guy...

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Anonymous
15 years ago

we are all shocked and deeply saddened at your loss love glenn ann jack in england

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Anonymous
15 years ago

May you rest is peace Jason, to all the family our condolence from heat to heart

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Anonymous
15 years ago

My memory of JD.. Jason was one of a loving person you will ever know. I remember just running into him a few months ago, can't believe he's gone. He is such a kind hearted person, like what everyone says A big teddy bear! my heart goes out to his family and children. Rest in peace. Jenn & Kids

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Where do I start? My heart goes out to the family. You always welcomed me into your home with open arms. Growing up, I felt like I had two homes and lucky enough on the same street. Man, I still remember the first day y'all moved in. I was sitting on my girl's porch across the street watching and the first thing I see is this dark haired boy about my age come out of the garage. I remember yelling out something, I don't remember what tho. He stopped to look and we ran inside. Haha! On our block for maybe a day and already getting the girls' attention. Go figure, right? Haha. I became closer to his sister at the time cuz me, her, n Jeremy took the bus together from school and got off at the same stop. But you know, he still took time to give me lil bits of advice even tho we didn't talk much. For some reason the one I remember is him telling me an exercise to strengthen my neck cuz I complained the ram head was too heavy. Haha! Years later, life took us our seperate ways but when I ran into him at random moments, he always said hi or gave the head nod. I wish I had taken the time to stop and catch up and now I won't get that chance. But my thoughts are with you. RIP J.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

jason was my niggs he will always be in my heart,and to the family of jason my heart goes out to you as well ville side ryda foe life cuzz...

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Anonymous
15 years ago

JD was always a loving, caring, genuine individual.. Perfect mixture of a sweetheart and a bad boy =). He will never be forgotten. He's touched all of our hearts with his presence and its sad that he had to go. Rest in Paradise JD!! We love you and it hurts so much that you're gone.... We'll miss you and think about you endlessly as the days go by.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I first met Jason playing ball on the football field, Jason was a great competitor when i played against him, Jason at Westmoor and me at El Camino. Jason became my friend when we were teamates at CSM. I admired his passion and love for the game and the way he brought teamates together. I remember the times where i didn't have much, no ride to get to school, practice, money or food to eat. Jason, and Jay Oca, ya'll were there for me and we became good friends. Life leads us to different paths but whenever i would run into Jason it was as if we never grew apart. Jason will be missed by all. The MAN above got it right when he makes people like Jason. My sincerest regards go out to the De La Cruz family. Jason-Keep on looking out from above

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Anonymous
15 years ago

God Bless the Dela Cruz Family. I'm so sorry for your loss. I was friends with his brother Jeremy and My brother went to school with Jason. May god bless your family .

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Anonymous
15 years ago

This is very sad when I heard what happen from my brother that he played on the basketball league. I was shocked and so sad I may know Jason from basketball league but I know he is woderful person my heart goes to you Jason and your family you'll be missed from our heart RIP and God Bless you.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

God bless you on your eternal journey. You are in a better place, and will be missed by many. God bless your family. May they see the light at the end of this dark tunnel. One love!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I went to junior high & high school with jason, although we were never that close we still said hello when we bumped into each other. I will never forget that smile of his. My deep sympathy to his family & close friends. God will take good care of him!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I knew Jason since junior high at Fernando and I will always remember the sweet, loving, curly haired half white & Filipino boy that made me laugh all the time. It's been quite a long time since I've seen him but on occassion we would run into each other and things would be just like when we were young. He will be missed by many and I send my condolences to his family and will always keep them in my prayers. It's a tragedy to have lost him at such a young age. To Mary and the kids, keep your head up high because the sky will clear and the rain will subside happiness is just around the corner. He will always be with you and the kids in spirit.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I nevva met him but he was in my extende family. so sad to here about it and although i never met you it upsets me all the same to know your gone. R.I.P Jason and we are thinking and praying for his family. Chris McGannon

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Anonymous
15 years ago

J.D. My brother from another Mother! I can't believe your gone...gone from this world but not from my heart! So many good and fun yet crazy memories growing up. Remember all them days on the block or at Northridge Park? Growing up together you and Jeremy and Janelle was always FAMILY to us-you guys welcomed us with open arms-seeing you now as a family man-someone who is so FAMILY ORIENTED...someone who was LOVED BY ALL!!! You and your wife have such a beautiful family and now your not here to watch your children grow up. But don't worry we'll be sure to look out for them! I wish I had one last time to say "I LOVE YOU BROTHER" or one last time to give you a hugg-just to see you one last time because you always had a smile that could light up a room...i love you bro! I still remember the last time I saw you in San Mateo, you gave me a hug and told me you loved me and to take care of myself. All the memories of you I will forever cherish. You were my big brother-I still cry at the thought of you not being here but I know your gonna save a seat for me right next to you huhs =). J.D. I LOVE YOU BROTHER...you will forever be missed! God be with you til we meet again! All my Love your sister Jen Lealao

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Jason was in our extended family, i am so sad to hear of the loss for the family , to carolann and all the family, love Gail Leyland (England) daughter of Glenn Leyland

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Jason was a great man with a big HEART. I've know him and his family through my little brothers that he grew up with Ken and Doug Lealao. I've watched him grow into a fine family man. He and his boys would come to the clubs that I worked for and I would always watch for them to make sure they were always safe. He will be sorely missed!! Words cannot explain the hurt that I and especially his family feel. We lost a great man. He was like a brother to me and to my family. God Bless to the mom, dad, Jeremy, Janelle, Mary and the kids. Your heartfelt loss is felt by all those who were close to him and to those who loved him. Love you JD!! I know you are in a better place but make sure you look in on us from time to time. R.I.P. JD. I love you little brother. Larry Lealao

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I knew Jason briefly when I was in high school at Lowell. He was always so kind and happy. We talked mostly about his family - the love he had for them was obvious. I am thankful to have had him in my life.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

Jason was very well liked and loved by even more. He left behind his children, a wife and a family that adored him. To think, this loss is all due to a 19 year old pieca sh*t little boy? To everyone who knew him knows he can never be replaced.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

To the Family and Friends: I'm very sorry for your loss. God Bless the Dela Cruz Family. Jason was a senior when I was a freshman at Westmoor. Our family's all went to school together since elementary in Christopher Columbus. Jason grew up with my brother Mike, I grew up with his brother Jeremy, and his sister Janelle grew up with my sister Crystal. I think about him everyday and I can't believe he is gone. Jason was a caring, respectful, and giving person. He always knew how to put a smile on my face. He would always carry this sharp & cheezy smile as if he was happy to see you. I guess I could speak for many of us that knew Jason as that sharp handsome man with a loving smile on his face. Jason - Thank you for being you. I know you will be looking over all of us...ONE LUV, DOWN

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I knew Jason ever since I was in elementary school, Christopher Columbus. I went to school with his sister, Janelle, and my brothers went to school with Jason along with their other sibling, Jeremy. One memory of Jason that I remember and I'm sure that everyone can relate to was his kindness and generosity at all times. He has a big heart. I'll miss you!

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I would like to wish my Sincerest condolences to the De La Cruz family, i also played with Jason at CSM he was a great teammate, friend and all around good man. He will be missed by many. RIP Jason.

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Anonymous
15 years ago

My condolences to the de la Cruz. I played ball with Jason at CSM and we became good friends since then. I had just moved back to the bay last year since I left in 99 and I ran into the Jason in the clubs and it was as if I had never left. Everytime we saw each other we always gave each other a hand shake and a hug and he would always ask if I needed anything. J always had a big loving heart and will never be forgotten. Much love, RIP my brother.....

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Anonymous
15 years ago

I am so sorry for your loss, de la Cruz family. Jason was a classmate of mine at Westmoor and we just ran into each other not too long ago. It was such a blessing to re-connect with an old friend, and to see him so happy and doing so well. This is such a huge tradgedy. My thoughts are with you all.

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