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kathy thoms
15 years ago

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kathy thoms
15 years ago

The time we spent with you and Kathy were always special. I thank God for those pleasant memories! Chanticleer, our cruise on the Delaware on Lewes Ferry, walking tour of Lewes, walks around Hammonton, trips by train to Atlantic City where we walked the boards, lunched at the Irish Pub, sat on the beach. Meeting at Philly Flower Show, learning how to grow flowers and vegetables in your greenhouse, sharing cuttings, antiquing in Frederick--dear God, you did bring home that iron ball--work of art! Saving money on food/meals so we could spend more on art! But we didn't skip the ice cream! The campouts, the cookouts, sailing on the river. You have given us a wealth of fond memories. Although the list could go on and on, I particularly appreciate the electrical and drywall work you did to make our house so much more finished! Thanks for the joys and laughter and your precious smile! God loves you and so do we. I do believe we'll meet again! Jeanne & Brian

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kathy thoms
15 years ago

my brother was always the stong one I could always count on him. Vin. I miss and will never believe you died. I wil always live in yur heart and will meet you on the other side. I wll always love

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Robert P Thoms
15 years ago

Uncle Vin and I had our first real conversation at the cabin at Bass River. I was amazed at his point of view and perception of the world and how he related it. It was always good to have long conversations with him after that. I will always miss him. Cousin Bob

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Vincent Thoms III
15 years ago

Dear dad, As every day goes by I miss you more, however, you are near. I feel your presence, your love and your guidance as I engage in my daily life. You have instilled in me a deep sense of respect for self and respect for others. You also taught me through your actions about how to be honest, hard working, earnest, loyal, and caring, and how very , very important it is to stand by your wife and children and your family and confront all things that are painful or that cause pain. Just like in the book The Road Less Travelled, you taught me to confront the challenges and pain of daily life with courage. Thank you dad. As the life cycle continues, I find myself being thrust into the role of mediator and referee for my own children. A few times I have felt like you were there as I reflect on what the right choice or next move should be. I find time for Jill and my children and enjoy the simple pleasure of a trip to the park, the beach, and sometimes an impromptu roadtrip, just as you and mom always did for us. I can vividly remember driving through Chinatown on the 4th after the fireworks, and so many other good trips to New Hope, Allaire, Island Beach State Park etc. I have learned through you what it means to enjoy the outdoors in a spiritual way, similar to the native americans worshiping of their creator. I know you weren't a huge fan of church and organized religion. It's okay, I won't hold it against you. I don't enjoy church either... My children miss you, but I know that you can hear them when they shout into the sky, "thank you Grandpa Vin". Thank you for assembling their wonderful playset. They love it, and they miss you. I will see you on the other side, Love always, Vin

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kathoms
15 years ago

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JeanneThoms
15 years ago

You taught us so much about quality work. Not only did you teach us--you worked alongside us and noticed areas we missed. You shared plants and ways to keep all our plants looking healthy and happy! You and Kathy took us along to Grounds for Sculpture, our "cruise on the Lewes," Chanticleer--to name a few places of beauty and peace. PA Dutch country and farmers' markets, antique stores in Frederick and elsewhere. Our lives were always much more exciting when shared with you and Kathy. We will miss you, until we meet again!

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kathoms
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Amy Thoms
15 years ago

My fondest memory of Uncle Vin was just last summer. He gave me more mint than I knew what to do with. He warned me not to plant it near anything because it would spread like wildfire. I admired his gardening and all that he had done to the backyard. I felt like I was just starting to get to know Uncle Vin. I was so looking forward to this summer, sitting on the deck, enjoying a cold mint tea with him. He was such a wonderful person and I will miss him so much, as will everyone. It is reassuring to know he has lots of great company in Heaven.

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kathy thoms
15 years ago

A friend is someone that you could call on at any time to share a thought, something you saw, call for help or just to say hello. Vin would listen, help out when he could or just enjoy what I had to say or we would commiserate about the situation in Mullica from the effort to stop the Dump to working for a decent government. He was excited when I shared about the bulbs coming up, the pears ripening and loved the persimmons. He would always be interested in plant cuttings, seeds and couldn’t figure out how I could tolerate such green pond water when it was so easy to get it crystal clear like his. He took in the extra goldfish that were born, provided home for the pond plants that needed to be removed to make room for the fish that stayed. He drew up a wonderful set of blue prints for my future pond assuring me that there was nothing to it. He did not hesitate to get up at 4 am to help distribute campaign literature or to stand at the dump passing out literature. His excitement, enthusiasm and interest in the garden, in working for justice and his friendship will always be missed. There is a gap in time that he leaves behind that can’t be bridged. He was a true friend. Mary

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kathy thoms
15 years ago

i was so fortunate to have met my great husband - he made me a better person and i will always try to be a better person because of him. He was one of the top electrical workers in the Elizabeth local and was referred to as a genius by his co-workers. He was the best father any kid could have and if you ask my sons, they would agree! His grandsons, Alex and Adam would also agree. Every time they visited Grandpa's house, they never wanted to go home they had so much fun with his chickens, hanging out in his newly built lean to which he built primarily for them when they got bigger and could sleep over. i will miss my best friend the rest of my life and will try never to leave our very happy home with all the good memories we have made and all the hard work Vin has put in his paradise in Mullica Twp. I love you and will miss you forever. kathy

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Sean Thoms
15 years ago

Although I didn't have the perfect relationship with my Father, He was a fair and gentle man. He never struck us, he always believed in what we could accomplish if we put our minds toward a goal and although he had a mean bark, he did a wonderful job raising my Brothers and I and loved my Mom very much. It sucks that he busted his ass his whole life at work only to miss out on the rest of his retirement. I love you Dad, you will be missed:((

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Petra
15 years ago

Wanted to send our thoughts and prayers your way again. I know Mr. Thoms would be so pround of you guys if he could see this site. I never knew Mr. Thoms but he sounded like such an amazing person. Just great in every sense of the way. I know he will be missed so much by his Family and Friends. May you rest in peace Mr. Thoms and look over your loved ones. Here is a poem for the Thoms Family and Friends, I love this poem. If Tears Could Build A Stairway If tears could build a stairway And memories were a lane We would walk right up to Heaven And bring you back again No farewell words were spoken No time to say goodbye You were gone before we knew it And only God knows why Our hearts still ache in sadness And secret tears still flow What it meant to lose you No on will ever know But know we know you want us To mourn for you no more To remember all the happy times Life still has much in store Since you’ll never be forgotten We pledge to you today A hallowed place within our hearts Is where you’ll always stay

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kathoms
15 years ago

Vin my father in law was a very unique man. It wasn't until he retired that I felt as though I met the true man. He was very passionate about his beliefs. I loved listening to his stories about life. The thing I will miss the most about Vin is what he was able to create using just wood and his hands. I will always treasure everything you made especially my door cats. You left us too quickly but you will always remain close to my heart forever.

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